"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need Advice,

There's this girl who I work with together, where I need her help and she needs my help. She's cute but I got a Girlfriend already and I don't like her in that way. The thing is, she keeps asking me to buy her coffee for the favors that she's "suppose" to do, I guess...I've never gave in b4 and never bought her anything. This has been going on for 2 months now...But should i buy her ice coffee now, after so much persistants from her?

The reason I don't buy her coffee in the first place is that I don't buy girls drinks. period. But this is a business industry work environment and would this make me less of a DJ if i do give in once? would this set me up for her to ask for more?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you're not obligated to do this as part of your job decline her request.

No sense in blowing money on a girl you're not interested in.

Even if its just to shut her up.
 
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I was never obligated but like i said, its like office work setting. If i do buy her something, would this make me more of a sucker? she wants me to buy it and bring it to her desk.

I'm thinking about it, and if i do, do it. What would i say to make it a differnet scenario than me doing an AFC move?

any ****y or funny line is there to even use? or is it hopelessly an AFC move nomatter wat?
 
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Buy the coffee, walk to her desk, drink it in front of her. Be sure to get a milk-foam mustache
 
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Giving in just sets you up for her to ask for more but if you feel you must give in at least ask her what she'll do in return.

If she offers nothing she gets nothing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm planning on buying her the ice coffee for her monday. Any c&f lines you guys think i can say?

Theres no point in asking her what I'll get outta it because she feels like she deserves it for all the work she done for me already. Not for wat she "is" gonna offer me.
 
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