"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl that I like

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Jamaicanballer

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There is a girl that I work with, that I like. She is about three years younger than me. I started to talk to her, but everytime I see her I get a little nervous. When I am about to say something a lot of things run through my mind. For example: I think to myself that she probably has a boyfriend and would not be interested in me. I think I am a good looking kid, but a proportionally plump (chubby). I am working out trying to get skinny, but none the less good looking. My point is how do I find out if she has a boyfriend, and how do I try to talk to her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Juan and only

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Well first, you read the DJ bible (link at the top right of the page)...then you realise that this shouldn't be in the tip section.
 

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Originally posted by James Bondage
If I had a penny for every time there was a post like this..
trilionaires chaching!

Read the bible!
 
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