"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl that cheated with me and on me

GeoMan

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Theres this girl I ended up taking from her babydaddy when they were living together. Has major daddy issues. With me everything was great until one day i told her i couldnt see her and she went out and made out with one of her exes. We broke up. She has a new boyfriend now. I tried to get back with her but she tells me shes happy with this person. Three months later she decided to call me to bring my stuff back from when we were going out. Clothes. She brings it and that night we talk on the phone for 5 hours. We agreed to hang out. We hanged out today behind her bfs back and I bring her over. I try for about twenty minutes to convince her to get back with me. We get really close and she plays with my hair puts her hands on my lap as i talk to her. She gives me a flirty look. I try to kiss her but she pulls away.

We keep talking until she has to leave and agree to hang out again. She leaves and ends up telling her boyfriend because she has the need to be honest lol. He gets upset at her and calls me saying hes really angry and not to hit her up for a couple days. Thanks me for a good day and that she just needs time to think.

My question is: are girls like this imposible to change. Do they need that much attention that they always find a way to cheat one way or another. Can they not help it? Is it a bad idea to take her back?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PipeDope

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Re read what you just wrote and you will find your answer.
 

Young OG

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First off, you didn't take her from her babydaddy. She is a slvt. What do slvts do? They fuvk. If you didn't come around, some other guy would have. She would have ended up cheating no matter what. I also think it was scum baggish to mess with her when she was living with a guy, who she has a kid with. If they didn't have a kid then it would be different. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a slvt, always a slvt. You can't make a hoe a house wife. Women like this will never change. I don't see why you even want this woman back. You should be hunting for new women. Get your act together and read the DJ Bible. Seriously...
 

Reckoning

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Either make her into a plate or next her, she's not girlfriend material and never will be.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BrainDamage92

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See this is why the problem is with us men as much as it is with the women.


If everyone around her apart from her parents told her that she is worthless and a horrible person she would change her ways.

But why so? She has a nice network of people telling her how awesome she is (you trying to convince her to get back with you?). She has her sugardaddy (yes, another one, or more, be sure of it), her boyfriend, and you of course in the worst position of the tampon.


You must distance yourself in space and time if you have feelings for her.

God I wish I could change the world but I cant couse homo sapiens is a dumb species.
 
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