"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl that cheated with me and on me

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Theres this girl I ended up taking from her babydaddy when they were living together. Has major daddy issues. With me everything was great until one day i told her i couldnt see her and she went out and made out with one of her exes. We broke up. She has a new boyfriend now. I tried to get back with her but she tells me shes happy with this person. Three months later she decided to call me to bring my stuff back from when we were going out. Clothes. She brings it and that night we talk on the phone for 5 hours. We agreed to hang out. We hanged out today behind her bfs back and I bring her over. I try for about twenty minutes to convince her to get back with me. We get really close and she plays with my hair puts her hands on my lap as i talk to her. She gives me a flirty look. I try to kiss her but she pulls away.

We keep talking until she has to leave and agree to hang out again. She leaves and ends up telling her boyfriend because she has the need to be honest lol. He gets upset at her and calls me saying hes really angry and not to hit her up for a couple days. Thanks me for a good day and that she just needs time to think.

My question is: are girls like this imposible to change. Do they need that much attention that they always find a way to cheat one way or another. Can they not help it? Is it a bad idea to take her back?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PipeDope

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Re read what you just wrote and you will find your answer.
 
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First off, you didn't take her from her babydaddy. She is a slvt. What do slvts do? They fuvk. If you didn't come around, some other guy would have. She would have ended up cheating no matter what. I also think it was scum baggish to mess with her when she was living with a guy, who she has a kid with. If they didn't have a kid then it would be different. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a slvt, always a slvt. You can't make a hoe a house wife. Women like this will never change. I don't see why you even want this woman back. You should be hunting for new women. Get your act together and read the DJ Bible. Seriously...
 
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Either make her into a plate or next her, she's not girlfriend material and never will be.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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See this is why the problem is with us men as much as it is with the women.


If everyone around her apart from her parents told her that she is worthless and a horrible person she would change her ways.

But why so? She has a nice network of people telling her how awesome she is (you trying to convince her to get back with you?). She has her sugardaddy (yes, another one, or more, be sure of it), her boyfriend, and you of course in the worst position of the tampon.


You must distance yourself in space and time if you have feelings for her.

God I wish I could change the world but I cant couse homo sapiens is a dumb species.
 
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