Two years ago when I had just broken up with my ex and was mean and bitter bastard, I was seeing this chic. She comes over and she's all on the phone with this guy, blah blah blah. It was pissing me off. So I grabbed her and took her to my bed room....she still talking away like I'm not even there.... so I bend her over my bed, pull her pants down and start fcking her, she says "ummm...I gotta go....call you back later". and hangs up the phone. That was the last time she did that, she would cut out texting as well. I used to treat that girl like crap and she loved it. Later, when I started being nice to her she lost all interest.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Girl Texting another guy
- Thread starter Bluesteak
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
justiceseeker
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LOLWarrior74 said:
broken dreams
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Dude Warrior 74 is my HERO !
I don't claim to know anything and since this is my first post, please pardon my bull**** -- but here is my opinion.Bluesteak said:
Ask her to give you the phone to read the messages, "Let me see what you're up to." If she refuses, tell her to close the phone. If she squawks, tell her that the other party can wait. If she asks, "Can't you wait?" then answer, "No."
I think you did say something, you just didn't say it with words. I don't think you got anything beneficial out of it either.
Her actions were disrespectful, not merely clueless. That should be addressed. This is an opportunity to show her that you mean business and that your time and attention shouldn't be taken for granted. You don't have to be hard about it but it shouldn't be up for debate.
While I'm impressed with Warrior74's solution, I'm not sure that it would have flown in the restaurant.
You have to look at this from the perspective of what's best for you, and what you will tolerate. If you tolerate disrespect from anyone, then that's what you will get.
Are you strong enough to say "no"? Most guys can't say "no". Most guys are looking for a way to convince women that they are great guys, but truly that shouldn't be anyone's concern.
Treating yourself with respect by not allowing disrespect to you by others and not stripping yourself of your dignity when a woman doesn't see you as important as you see yourself is what you should put on the top of your list.
BUT how do you know this guy is even a threat? How do you know this guy isn't a dwarf, gay, or even maybe ugly, but friendly? That's the thing you need to find out before you jump to conclusion or think the worst.
If you are secure in yourself, it will not matter what this girl does. Why do I say this? Because her actions do not define who you are. If she is flirting with a guy through text while she is with you, then she's really missing the fact that she's got something great sitting right next to her. You MUST believe that. If you believe it, others will, too.
Are you strong enough to say "no"? Most guys can't say "no". Most guys are looking for a way to convince women that they are great guys, but truly that shouldn't be anyone's concern.
Treating yourself with respect by not allowing disrespect to you by others and not stripping yourself of your dignity when a woman doesn't see you as important as you see yourself is what you should put on the top of your list.
BUT how do you know this guy is even a threat? How do you know this guy isn't a dwarf, gay, or even maybe ugly, but friendly? That's the thing you need to find out before you jump to conclusion or think the worst.
If you are secure in yourself, it will not matter what this girl does. Why do I say this? Because her actions do not define who you are. If she is flirting with a guy through text while she is with you, then she's really missing the fact that she's got something great sitting right next to her. You MUST believe that. If you believe it, others will, too.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lol whys everyone getting soooooooooo mad? All this 'she doesn't deserve you' and 'tell her she is being rude'. Please, thats what girls do. Stop being so insecure.
Get on a fourth date with her asap, and start checking out every hot girl that walks past. Even start gaming a few infront of her. Have some fun.
Brush her bull-siht off you shoulder and don't let it, your surroundings or people in your company ever effect your mood or sense of happiness. Be secure and stop caring. That way you'll always be in control. And everyone else will be chasing you, not vice versa.
Get on a fourth date with her asap, and start checking out every hot girl that walks past. Even start gaming a few infront of her. Have some fun.
Brush her bull-siht off you shoulder and don't let it, your surroundings or people in your company ever effect your mood or sense of happiness. Be secure and stop caring. That way you'll always be in control. And everyone else will be chasing you, not vice versa.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Violent V said:
Well said