Two years ago when I had just broken up with my ex and was mean and bitter bastard, I was seeing this chic. She comes over and she's all on the phone with this guy, blah blah blah. It was pissing me off. So I grabbed her and took her to my bed room....she still talking away like I'm not even there.... so I bend her over my bed, pull her pants down and start fcking her, she says "ummm...I gotta go....call you back later". and hangs up the phone. That was the last time she did that, she would cut out texting as well. I used to treat that girl like crap and she loved it. Later, when I started being nice to her she lost all interest.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girl Texting another guy
- Thread starter Bluesteak
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
justiceseeker
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LOLWarrior74 said:
broken dreams
Senior Don Juan
Dude Warrior 74 is my HERO !
I don't claim to know anything and since this is my first post, please pardon my bull**** -- but here is my opinion.Bluesteak said:
Ask her to give you the phone to read the messages, "Let me see what you're up to." If she refuses, tell her to close the phone. If she squawks, tell her that the other party can wait. If she asks, "Can't you wait?" then answer, "No."
I think you did say something, you just didn't say it with words. I don't think you got anything beneficial out of it either.
Her actions were disrespectful, not merely clueless. That should be addressed. This is an opportunity to show her that you mean business and that your time and attention shouldn't be taken for granted. You don't have to be hard about it but it shouldn't be up for debate.
While I'm impressed with Warrior74's solution, I'm not sure that it would have flown in the restaurant.
You have to look at this from the perspective of what's best for you, and what you will tolerate. If you tolerate disrespect from anyone, then that's what you will get.
Are you strong enough to say "no"? Most guys can't say "no". Most guys are looking for a way to convince women that they are great guys, but truly that shouldn't be anyone's concern.
Treating yourself with respect by not allowing disrespect to you by others and not stripping yourself of your dignity when a woman doesn't see you as important as you see yourself is what you should put on the top of your list.
BUT how do you know this guy is even a threat? How do you know this guy isn't a dwarf, gay, or even maybe ugly, but friendly? That's the thing you need to find out before you jump to conclusion or think the worst.
If you are secure in yourself, it will not matter what this girl does. Why do I say this? Because her actions do not define who you are. If she is flirting with a guy through text while she is with you, then she's really missing the fact that she's got something great sitting right next to her. You MUST believe that. If you believe it, others will, too.
Are you strong enough to say "no"? Most guys can't say "no". Most guys are looking for a way to convince women that they are great guys, but truly that shouldn't be anyone's concern.
Treating yourself with respect by not allowing disrespect to you by others and not stripping yourself of your dignity when a woman doesn't see you as important as you see yourself is what you should put on the top of your list.
BUT how do you know this guy is even a threat? How do you know this guy isn't a dwarf, gay, or even maybe ugly, but friendly? That's the thing you need to find out before you jump to conclusion or think the worst.
If you are secure in yourself, it will not matter what this girl does. Why do I say this? Because her actions do not define who you are. If she is flirting with a guy through text while she is with you, then she's really missing the fact that she's got something great sitting right next to her. You MUST believe that. If you believe it, others will, too.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
lol whys everyone getting soooooooooo mad? All this 'she doesn't deserve you' and 'tell her she is being rude'. Please, thats what girls do. Stop being so insecure.
Get on a fourth date with her asap, and start checking out every hot girl that walks past. Even start gaming a few infront of her. Have some fun.
Brush her bull-siht off you shoulder and don't let it, your surroundings or people in your company ever effect your mood or sense of happiness. Be secure and stop caring. That way you'll always be in control. And everyone else will be chasing you, not vice versa.
Get on a fourth date with her asap, and start checking out every hot girl that walks past. Even start gaming a few infront of her. Have some fun.
Brush her bull-siht off you shoulder and don't let it, your surroundings or people in your company ever effect your mood or sense of happiness. Be secure and stop caring. That way you'll always be in control. And everyone else will be chasing you, not vice versa.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Violent V said:
Well said