Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girl testing me at a club

j-flex

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well i was on spring break and i went to the US, so im there in a club and im campaining (i was by my own) so i saw this group of chicks and i go with the hottest one and told her, lets dance,

she said: why should i dance with you when there are all this guys (there were more guys than girls). and i said because im a MACK!

she then said ooooh no thanks! and laughed , so i just walked away.

god i felt like a retard, then i thought i should have told her: because i have a huge co.ck. lol

oh well...


have any of you guys been tested like this? if so what did you answer.

or what would you have answered.


by the way spring breaks in the US are awsome!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ARrocket

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I would have said "because you want me more than them"

May not have worked, but that's the way my brain works lol.
 

BBQsauce

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Should have said, "Why, would you rather just go back to my place instead?"

It would have worked. 75% sure.
 

wjh

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her: "why should i dance with you when there are all these guys?"

me: "that's for me to know and you to figure out ;) have fun, i'll see you around. "
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Groovy

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"Because I'll teach you a thing or two. If you can handle me, that it!"

Lol. I don't think I could pull that one without laughing at myself. :D

It would be fun tho.
 

619joe

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You were tested & rejected pretty much at the same time....

You should have said

"Well Why arent any of them approaching you/have the balls to approach you then?" If then she said yes,then you passed.If she keep going negative,you shoulda said "Actually now I clearly see why" and walk away.

The thing is with **** tests is DONT RESPOND HOW SHE THINKS YOU WILL RESPOND.She had a feeling you were gonna be ****y like that and you got blown out thats why.
 
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