"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl testing me at a club

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well i was on spring break and i went to the US, so im there in a club and im campaining (i was by my own) so i saw this group of chicks and i go with the hottest one and told her, lets dance,

she said: why should i dance with you when there are all this guys (there were more guys than girls). and i said because im a MACK!

she then said ooooh no thanks! and laughed , so i just walked away.

god i felt like a retard, then i thought i should have told her: because i have a huge co.ck. lol

oh well...


have any of you guys been tested like this? if so what did you answer.

or what would you have answered.


by the way spring breaks in the US are awsome!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ARrocket

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I would have said "because you want me more than them"

May not have worked, but that's the way my brain works lol.
 

BBQsauce

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Should have said, "Why, would you rather just go back to my place instead?"

It would have worked. 75% sure.
 

wjh

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her: "why should i dance with you when there are all these guys?"

me: "that's for me to know and you to figure out ;) have fun, i'll see you around. "
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Groovy

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"Because I'll teach you a thing or two. If you can handle me, that it!"

Lol. I don't think I could pull that one without laughing at myself. :D

It would be fun tho.
 

619joe

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You were tested & rejected pretty much at the same time....

You should have said

"Well Why arent any of them approaching you/have the balls to approach you then?" If then she said yes,then you passed.If she keep going negative,you shoulda said "Actually now I clearly see why" and walk away.

The thing is with **** tests is DONT RESPOND HOW SHE THINKS YOU WILL RESPOND.She had a feeling you were gonna be ****y like that and you got blown out thats why.
 
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