Girl tells me "You should stop teasing women like that" and walks away...wtf?

[marmel75]

Was out with my buddies last night at a local bar hanging out and they told me there was a girl that kept staring at me multiple times. Sure enough I look over and she was staring at me pretty hard. I kept eye contact with her and she smiled. I returned a half smirk and went back to talking to my buddies.

About 2 or 3 minutes later I notice she is now standing directly in front of us with her group of friends on the other side of the bar and again notice her staring at me. Another few minutes pass and on her way by my to go "to the bathroom" she grabs my arm and tells me "I just wanted to let you know I find you really attractive". I thank her for the compliment but then tell her I am married and show her my ring. She stops smiling at me and says "You should stop teasing women like that." and walks away.

Wtf was that all about? In this instance I had no intention of trying to pick anyone up and wasn't really doing anything. I was dressed nice, but I always am when I go out. Black shirt, black pants, black belt, black shoes. My friends wre busting my balls the rest of the night over that...it was kind of funny, but again, wtf was that comment about?

 

[betheman]

"You should stop teasing women like that." and walks away.

Wtf was that all about?

= "I feel pretty slutty and stupid, I am brave enough to approach a guy, fidn out hes married, I look soo bad right now, how do I escape this feeling and make myself feel good again...?" = "You should stop teasing women like that." ....and walks away feeling better about herself.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I suppose it was about most women's inability to take responsibility for their own words and actions.

Ever notice how in an argument, 100% of the time it becomes about how you are acting (you are so mean..) instead of that actual subject at hand?

For the average bar slut, her little brain hamster can only comprehend the effect You have had on Her, and little more. It is impossible for her to accept rejection. Rejection would disintegrate her massive ego, so she must turn the rejection around on you and your "horrible" behavior.

Women are not sane. Never forget that. Not a single one is sane as we define sanity (common sense and an ability to think rationally and recognize reality). Expect insanity and you will experience fewer WTF moments...