"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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konmai

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I like her personality. She's gorgeous. The content of her conversation is actually interesting, but she just goes on FOREVER! Her emails are also essay length. Other than this, she's almost perfect. Why? :cuss: I've dated a lot of girls, and I have never met one who talks or writes so much.

You guys ever date a girl who was pretty awesome but just couldn't get to the point?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Diaforetikos

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Yup. My first girl was a yapper. Went on about nothing. To top it all off, her jokes were super corny. She started to get funnier towards the end of our relationship, but that was because she hung around me so much.

My advice is hit it and quit it... or toot it and boot it... or stick it then flick it... or screw it and lose it... or pop it and drop it... or... I'm done.

I promise.
 
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I was over at a girl's house 2 weeks ago.

She was yapping as usual and I grabbed a piece of tape and went to put it over her mouth....

It turned her on in BIG way.
 
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vatoloco

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Dude! Let her yap away. If she's talking, she's happy. Worry about it when all she does is look out the window in complete silence. Then you have problems my friend...

My girlfriend loves to yap. She talks about the most inconsequential things and I hardly remember what she says. All I know is "I'm a great listener" and she is in Cloud 9.

"Oh Mikey, do you even think I know what the hell they're saying to me half the time? ... All I do man is stare at their mouth and wrinkle my eyebrows and somehow I turn out to be a big sweetie, okay?"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vvKeDr3k7n0

The one time when she's quiet is when she grabs my cock and puts it in her mouth. :D
 
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scorpio1138 said:
I was over at a girl's house 2 weeks ago.

She was yapping as usual and I grabbed a piece of tape and went to put it over her mouth....

It turned her on in BIG way.
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lmao this post is awesome
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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