Girl talks about other men

[ohiobohio518]

Cutting to the chase:

This girl shows plenty of signs of interest. She even acts jealous when I'm with other girls. I just can't tell if she's leading me on or not.

Recently, she has started to tell me about people who she hooked up with (while drunk) and people she finds attractive.

I've read that this is a sign that says "hurry up and ask me out," but I'm not sure about the validity of that statement.

As a guy, I would never say something like that to a girl I was interested in. Just a thought.

VERY IMPORTANT TO NOTE: No, I'm not her emotional tampon. She doesn't spill out her emotions and cry on my shoulder like she would to a "nice guy." She just tells me her little incidents that has no meaning. I'm not stupid or an AFC, so I would be the first to recognize that she was using me to cry on. She isn't crying. She's basically telling me stories - which I frankly don't care about.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

next time she points a guy shes attracted to, grab ur hand and go introduce her to him.


leave them to talk and when she comes back, tease her about scarin him off, then make her buy you dinner. voila, your date.

 

[Jariel]

I've read that this is a sign that says "hurry up and ask me out," but I'm not sure about the validity of that statement.

Yeah this is often the case and my gf did the same to me to try and get me to ask her out (and has since admitted to it).

Try calling her bluff, offer to give her number to the guy she mentions or encourage her to go for it, and then judge her reaction. However, if you like her and suspect she likes you, make a move or ask her out. If she's leading you on, then you'll find out one way or another. Keep holding back and you could miss your chance and none of this will matter.

 

[Wyldfire]

I actually have a tip in the Tips Section about this issue. I think you'll find it very helpful. I'll go try to track down the link for you.

Okay...here is the link:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16559

 

[So pimp its scary]

The SECOND a girl mentions another guy she's dated... Especially when I first meet, will tell her that I'm not interested in talking about other guys.

Once I've been seeing a girl for a while, I find it ok to discuss exes, but I really don't care about her past.