“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl stuff, week in review

Maxtro

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Girl is in a LDR (Long Distance Relationship), BF is in Hawaii she has shown some interest in me. Possible to get her? Different girl I met at gym. I asked her out she didn't have a number because she was staying with a friend of her families, she took mine. Didn't call and I will run into her again next time I'm at gym. How do I act, what do I say?

I'm thinking about talking about LDR's to the first girl and maybe find out why she is in one and if she is happy. I don't think that is the correct way to get her though. As for the gym girl I think I should pretend that nothing happened or maybe tell her that I was looking forward to seeing her over the weekend? Any way to get a clear cut answer from her? All opinions are greatly appreciated.
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Long, detailed version.

With the week coming to a close I had the desire to air my thoughts put them out in the open.

There is a girl in one of my classes that I talk with frequently and I'm the only person in class who talks to her. I also walk her to the parking lot when I feel like it. During our conversations I learned that she came to California from Hawaii to kind of restart her life. I would have asked her out long ago if she didn't have a boyfriend. But theres a twist, she left her boyfriend in Hawaii. Then I found out that he was in town this weekend to see her :rolleyes: To sum it all up she's a girl that I really think I would have a shot with if she wasn't taken but she's in a long distance relationship, which I think is utterly stupid. Her interest in me seems fairly high. She's a 10 so thats probably why her boyfriend is still with her but it all seems retarded. Whats the point of having a girlfriend if you can't fvck her? I'm hoping she finds out he's been cheating or something. I want to get her but it's a very delicate situation. I don't have a clue what to do.
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There is a girl at my college gym that I recently started talking to. I've only spoken with her on about two or three occasions but her interest in me seems really high. Last time I worked out she was with me the whole time. She's been normally doing the cardio stuff and I offered to show her how to use the weights. So we stretched together, I held her feet while she did sit-ups and she did the same for me, and I hurt my neck :( Then we hit the weights taking turns. I was somewhat nervous the whole time so I didn't really think about kino or making jokes. When it was time to go she told me "thank you for helping me" and gave me a hug then she made a kissing sound, I think she was thinking about giving me a kiss on the cheek. I said see you next time and I went to my locker to get my stuff and she went to go talk to her girlfriend.

As I was leaving I waved bye to her and continued on. She ran out told me thanks again. I thought to myself “what the hell, I'll take the risk” I asked if she had any plans on the weekend and she told me that she didn't. I told her that we should get together for lunch and she said happily said, “Yeah thats a great idea.” I asked her for her number and she told me that she doesn't have one because she is staying with a friend of her family. She then asked for my number I nervously wrote “Maxtro from the gym and my number.” She laughed when I told her what it said. I said bye to her and her friend and left.

I had no expectation for her to call so I was not disappointed when she didn't. She may call tonight but I really doubt it. There is a thousand reasons why she wouldn't call. Most likely I'm going to run into her again next time I workout on Tuesday but I have no idea what to say to her.
 
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HolyG

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Always make sure you have SOME method of contacting a chick. and try not to give your number to girls, just focus on taking them.
 

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What should I have said to her when she said she didn't have a number? I was about to say something like "you don't have a cell" but she quickly asked for my number before I could say anything.

Any ideas how I should act or what should I say when I see her at the gym next time?
 

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no biggie. just give her your number and be like:

"alright how about let's just set a time and place to meet and skip the whole talking part ;)"
 

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Potbelly said:
no biggie. just give her your number and be like:

"alright how about let's just set a time and place to meet and skip the whole talking part ;)"
So your saying I should just try and set up a date with her, without talking to her first? Something doesn't seem right about that.

Anybody else have any input about what to do with the girl who's in the LDR or the gym girl :confused:
 
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