Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Cliff notes:
Girl is in a LDR (Long Distance Relationship), BF is in Hawaii she has shown some interest in me. Possible to get her? Different girl I met at gym. I asked her out she didn't have a number because she was staying with a friend of her families, she took mine. Didn't call and I will run into her again next time I'm at gym. How do I act, what do I say?
I'm thinking about talking about LDR's to the first girl and maybe find out why she is in one and if she is happy. I don't think that is the correct way to get her though. As for the gym girl I think I should pretend that nothing happened or maybe tell her that I was looking forward to seeing her over the weekend? Any way to get a clear cut answer from her? All opinions are greatly appreciated.
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Long, detailed version.
With the week coming to a close I had the desire to air my thoughts put them out in the open.
There is a girl in one of my classes that I talk with frequently and I'm the only person in class who talks to her. I also walk her to the parking lot when I feel like it. During our conversations I learned that she came to California from Hawaii to kind of restart her life. I would have asked her out long ago if she didn't have a boyfriend. But theres a twist, she left her boyfriend in Hawaii. Then I found out that he was in town this weekend to see her
To sum it all up she's a girl that I really think I would have a shot with if she wasn't taken but she's in a long distance relationship, which I think is utterly stupid. Her interest in me seems fairly high. She's a 10 so thats probably why her boyfriend is still with her but it all seems retarded. Whats the point of having a girlfriend if you can't fvck her? I'm hoping she finds out he's been cheating or something. I want to get her but it's a very delicate situation. I don't have a clue what to do.
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There is a girl at my college gym that I recently started talking to. I've only spoken with her on about two or three occasions but her interest in me seems really high. Last time I worked out she was with me the whole time. She's been normally doing the cardio stuff and I offered to show her how to use the weights. So we stretched together, I held her feet while she did sit-ups and she did the same for me, and I hurt my neck Then we hit the weights taking turns. I was somewhat nervous the whole time so I didn't really think about kino or making jokes. When it was time to go she told me "thank you for helping me" and gave me a hug then she made a kissing sound, I think she was thinking about giving me a kiss on the cheek. I said see you next time and I went to my locker to get my stuff and she went to go talk to her girlfriend.
As I was leaving I waved bye to her and continued on. She ran out told me thanks again. I thought to myself “what the hell, I'll take the risk” I asked if she had any plans on the weekend and she told me that she didn't. I told her that we should get together for lunch and she said happily said, “Yeah thats a great idea.” I asked her for her number and she told me that she doesn't have one because she is staying with a friend of her family. She then asked for my number I nervously wrote “Maxtro from the gym and my number.” She laughed when I told her what it said. I said bye to her and her friend and left.
I had no expectation for her to call so I was not disappointed when she didn't. She may call tonight but I really doubt it. There is a thousand reasons why she wouldn't call. Most likely I'm going to run into her again next time I workout on Tuesday but I have no idea what to say to her.
Girl is in a LDR (Long Distance Relationship), BF is in Hawaii she has shown some interest in me. Possible to get her? Different girl I met at gym. I asked her out she didn't have a number because she was staying with a friend of her families, she took mine. Didn't call and I will run into her again next time I'm at gym. How do I act, what do I say?
I'm thinking about talking about LDR's to the first girl and maybe find out why she is in one and if she is happy. I don't think that is the correct way to get her though. As for the gym girl I think I should pretend that nothing happened or maybe tell her that I was looking forward to seeing her over the weekend? Any way to get a clear cut answer from her? All opinions are greatly appreciated.
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Long, detailed version.
With the week coming to a close I had the desire to air my thoughts put them out in the open.
There is a girl in one of my classes that I talk with frequently and I'm the only person in class who talks to her. I also walk her to the parking lot when I feel like it. During our conversations I learned that she came to California from Hawaii to kind of restart her life. I would have asked her out long ago if she didn't have a boyfriend. But theres a twist, she left her boyfriend in Hawaii. Then I found out that he was in town this weekend to see her
To sum it all up she's a girl that I really think I would have a shot with if she wasn't taken but she's in a long distance relationship, which I think is utterly stupid. Her interest in me seems fairly high. She's a 10 so thats probably why her boyfriend is still with her but it all seems retarded. Whats the point of having a girlfriend if you can't fvck her? I'm hoping she finds out he's been cheating or something. I want to get her but it's a very delicate situation. I don't have a clue what to do.------------------------------------------
There is a girl at my college gym that I recently started talking to. I've only spoken with her on about two or three occasions but her interest in me seems really high. Last time I worked out she was with me the whole time. She's been normally doing the cardio stuff and I offered to show her how to use the weights. So we stretched together, I held her feet while she did sit-ups and she did the same for me, and I hurt my neck
Then we hit the weights taking turns. I was somewhat nervous the whole time so I didn't really think about kino or making jokes. When it was time to go she told me "thank you for helping me" and gave me a hug then she made a kissing sound, I think she was thinking about giving me a kiss on the cheek. I said see you next time and I went to my locker to get my stuff and she went to go talk to her girlfriend. As I was leaving I waved bye to her and continued on. She ran out told me thanks again. I thought to myself “what the hell, I'll take the risk” I asked if she had any plans on the weekend and she told me that she didn't. I told her that we should get together for lunch and she said happily said, “Yeah thats a great idea.” I asked her for her number and she told me that she doesn't have one because she is staying with a friend of her family. She then asked for my number I nervously wrote “Maxtro from the gym and my number.” She laughed when I told her what it said. I said bye to her and her friend and left.
I had no expectation for her to call so I was not disappointed when she didn't. She may call tonight but I really doubt it. There is a thousand reasons why she wouldn't call. Most likely I'm going to run into her again next time I workout on Tuesday but I have no idea what to say to her.
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