"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl staying over on New Years Eve
- Thread starter Blinkers
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Now read your original post.Blinkers said:
Any questions? lol
d0g
Don Juan
Nice! Sounds like you had to do basically zero work on the day. Would you care to give us a little bit of the back-story as to how you cultivated this one? You must have done something in your social circle beforehand to make her decide she wants your d*ck to ring in her New Year (or something).Blinkers said:
Yes, I know… This is going to be a fun learning curve, especially as she’s already been back for more. I am just trying to maintain my indifference and avoid any acts that may be misconstrued as chivalry.
Trying to get the same result with *No 2 at the moment although she seems quite shy or perhaps reserved. Happy to kiss me for ages on date 2 but wasn’t as receptive to my wandering hands and she stopped us both in our tracks when she felt something against her that was trying to tear its own way out of my jeans
Its date 3 with *No 2 this weekend. We are going to my favourite comedy club, because that’s what I want to do, followed by drinks of course and hopefully more pyjamas back at mine.
Then at some point on Sunday I may spend my allocated 10-15 minutes per week of getting over my emotional trauma from my LTR break up in the “no contact” thread here; unless this shy girl turns out be a nympho and I get involved in a fvckathon, in which case I will be way too busy telling you guys in here how fvcking awesome it was; instead of wasting so much of my day grieving..
@dog
I could probably make a load of assumptions but simply put I never really paid her any attention. Not because I was gaming, because I really, really didn’t invest any effort in a girl who was not only my friend, but my ex’s friend too. I never once thought she would be prancing around my house in a thong, especially less than a month after her friend and I broke up. I must admit that while I watched her walk towards me and sit down to straddle me in my chair, I did have a “if my ex could see us now” moment. This chick is way hotter than my ex too; I even had a ‘pervy’ look at her clothes size... a UK 8/10 my ex was a UK 14 by the end of our relationship.