pyros
Master Don Juan
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I've been seing this 22 years old girl for around 7 months. A month ago or so I told her that I did not want a serious relationship with her so she got sad and upset...but after a week or a bit more she just got back to normal and we talked again and decided that we could still see each other as we were before, but keeping in mind that this is not going anywhere long term.
Well, two weeks later or so, she told me that because of our last talk, she wanted to make it clear that we could start seing other ppl at any time, and that we should not get mad with each other because of that in case it happened. She also said that if either she or me started to have regular sex with somebody, we should tell each other and then we should stop hanging out. She said that if I had sex one night with some girl, I did not have to tell her but that if it became something regular then yes.
The thing is that she behaves like a girlfriend, she is super affectionate, she texts me everyday, always wants to hang out, worries about me, seems to get jelaous sometimes, etc etc
She says that she never lies, that she prefers to be with me than with anybody else, and that she just wants to have sex with me, BUT, in the last week she has told me twice that she either was gonna meet up with some guy but in the end she declined, or last night she directly told me that she went to have dinner with some guy friend she never mentioned before.
I did not really react when she told me this, I just listened and then I started to talk about something funy on my smartphone.
I know that she makes this to make me jelaous but the thing is that I find it disrespectful. She can go out and fvck two guys, but if she tells me about it is just disgusting.
I got so disgusted that I think I am cancelling a little trip we've planned for March, or I am sending her to the curb, or both.
I am thinking that I either stop seing her now (because , you know, at some point we will cut contact cause it is not leading to a LTR), or I keep her for a few more months but I tell her that talking about other dues etc is just disrespecful, so if she does it again, we will just stop seing each other.
Thoughts?
Well, two weeks later or so, she told me that because of our last talk, she wanted to make it clear that we could start seing other ppl at any time, and that we should not get mad with each other because of that in case it happened. She also said that if either she or me started to have regular sex with somebody, we should tell each other and then we should stop hanging out. She said that if I had sex one night with some girl, I did not have to tell her but that if it became something regular then yes.
The thing is that she behaves like a girlfriend, she is super affectionate, she texts me everyday, always wants to hang out, worries about me, seems to get jelaous sometimes, etc etc
She says that she never lies, that she prefers to be with me than with anybody else, and that she just wants to have sex with me, BUT, in the last week she has told me twice that she either was gonna meet up with some guy but in the end she declined, or last night she directly told me that she went to have dinner with some guy friend she never mentioned before.
I did not really react when she told me this, I just listened and then I started to talk about something funy on my smartphone.
I know that she makes this to make me jelaous but the thing is that I find it disrespectful. She can go out and fvck two guys, but if she tells me about it is just disgusting.
I got so disgusted that I think I am cancelling a little trip we've planned for March, or I am sending her to the curb, or both.
I am thinking that I either stop seing her now (because , you know, at some point we will cut contact cause it is not leading to a LTR), or I keep her for a few more months but I tell her that talking about other dues etc is just disrespecful, so if she does it again, we will just stop seing each other.
Thoughts?
