"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl spinning plates

tomato

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Girl tells me she is very innocent and basically a virgin and doesn't want sex unless in a relationship thing, plays up the whole I wouldn't have sex with anyone else thing.... when I know for a fact she is spinning a few guys at the same time and at least in the past had sex with two.

I take it this is a big red flag?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zerro

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tomato said:
Girl tells me she is very innocent and basically a virgin and doesn't want sex unless in a relationship thing, plays up the whole I wouldn't have sex with anyone else thing.... when I know for a fact she is spinning a few guys at the same time and at least in the past had sex with two.

I take it this is a big red flag?
Ya think? Any girl who claims to be innocent isn't.
 

zekko

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tomato said:
Girl tells me she is very innocent and basically a virgin and doesn't want sex unless in a relationship thing
Basically a virgin? What the heck does that mean?
 

Mantis Toboggan

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zekko said:
Basically a virgin? What the heck does that mean?

Check out this guy's posting history before getting involved in a conversation with him.

He comes off rather troll-ish.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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