"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tomato

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Girl tells me she is very innocent and basically a virgin and doesn't want sex unless in a relationship thing, plays up the whole I wouldn't have sex with anyone else thing.... when I know for a fact she is spinning a few guys at the same time and at least in the past had sex with two.

I take it this is a big red flag?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zerro

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tomato said:
Girl tells me she is very innocent and basically a virgin and doesn't want sex unless in a relationship thing, plays up the whole I wouldn't have sex with anyone else thing.... when I know for a fact she is spinning a few guys at the same time and at least in the past had sex with two.

I take it this is a big red flag?
Ya think? Any girl who claims to be innocent isn't.
 

zekko

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tomato said:
Girl tells me she is very innocent and basically a virgin and doesn't want sex unless in a relationship thing
Basically a virgin? What the heck does that mean?
 

Mantis Toboggan

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zekko said:
Basically a virgin? What the heck does that mean?

Check out this guy's posting history before getting involved in a conversation with him.

He comes off rather troll-ish.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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