"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl sends random text msgs saying "hi"

Venom01

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Anyone ever get this?

I'm assuming this chick is just thinking of me and wants to see how i respond.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I respond to these. I actually responded to one last night. Apparently her Halloween didn't go well, she was crying, upset, I cheered her up. The way I see it, she'll think of me more next time as a go to guy, and she'll invest more time into me. Since I've already escalated this girl to a few make out sessions, I don't have to worry about getting LJBF'd.
 

decades

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she wants to be entertained and she invested all of two seconds IN YOU in the hopes that you will cooperate.
 

abcd_z

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Yeah, I've gotten these every now and then. Most of the time, unless I have something to hook her attention in my response, I never hear from her a second time that day. *shrug* If you've got something, go for it. If not, don't sweat it and text her on your terms.
 
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