"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl sends random text msgs saying "hi"

Venom01

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Anyone ever get this?

I'm assuming this chick is just thinking of me and wants to see how i respond.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I respond to these. I actually responded to one last night. Apparently her Halloween didn't go well, she was crying, upset, I cheered her up. The way I see it, she'll think of me more next time as a go to guy, and she'll invest more time into me. Since I've already escalated this girl to a few make out sessions, I don't have to worry about getting LJBF'd.
 

decades

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she wants to be entertained and she invested all of two seconds IN YOU in the hopes that you will cooperate.
 

abcd_z

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Yeah, I've gotten these every now and then. Most of the time, unless I have something to hook her attention in my response, I never hear from her a second time that day. *shrug* If you've got something, go for it. If not, don't sweat it and text her on your terms.
 
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