girl seing another dude, part 2

[pyros]

Met this chick a few weeks ago. She gave me her number.

Asked her out, but she said that she was 'getting to know another guy', but agreed to go on a date anyway.

We did, had fun etc, she touched me, rubbed my arm etc. At the end I went for a kiss and she rejected me. After 20 more minutes when I was saying good-bye to her I went for a kiss again and she gave me the chick and said:

her: "I told you I'm getting to know another guy"

I went no contact following the advise given here. A week later she added me on FB. Then, she liked one of my pictures in which it is me and a female friend of mine.

I plan on keeping my no contact and waiting for her to initiate. If she did, I'd ask her out again.

Opinions?

 

[Tictac]

Women spin plates - film at 11.

 

[pyros]

I think she wants to keep me as an option B. Uhm...

And I just got her a beer, and she wanted to pay for it, because she's more than wealthy. That beer was 3 €.

I'll continue NC.

 

[jc_80]

unless she's already committed, then her putting her efforts into someone else says she thinks you lack something she wants in a man. If you just want to hit it for fun while she falls back on you for attention probably only temporarily then go for it if you are up for the challenge

 

[TheCWord]

This is some of your finest work, pyros. Keep it up. Adding you to FB and liking your photos is nice, but it's passive. We need her to text you, either by phone or FB, and initiate a convo. You reply with a Q of your own, she replies, then you ask for the date. If it's anything except for yes or a no with solid counter offer, she's back in the NC corner.

 

[GS750]

Stay aloof. It seems to be working. You got the hamster wheel spinning. Nice work.