"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl seems to be into me but didnt come see me last night,

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As soon as I get done babysitting I'm coming to see you!!! yay! Can I lay in bed with you. :)

Sure
Can :)

Then she said good i didnt see hear from her around 10 i txtd hey just seeing when you coming. She callled like hour later said she dropping off and she going to city she heading over i said ok cya. Was midnight i txted falling asleep zzzzzzz.

So we had date once i had accident following week been in hospoital she said she was mad when didnt hear from me but felt awful when found out i was in hospital saw me day before yesterday for a little.

What should i do hit her up like few days try get her come over again?
If makes excuse what do i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thelonewolflegend said:
hit her up like few days try get her come over again?
Hit her up until she comes over.
 
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How often u usually hit her up? Should i tease her this week when i hit her up about not coming to see me? Im in hospital so i think rules dont matter too much right?
 
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girl seems to be into me but didnt come see me last night,
As soon as I get done babysitting I'm coming to see you!!! yay! Can I lay in bed with you.

Sure
Can

Then she said, Good. Then i didnt see or hear from her so at 10 i txtd her, hey just seeing when you coming. She callled like hour later said she dropping off and she going to city and she heading over i said ok cya. Was midnight and noshow so i txted falling asleep zzzzzzz.

So we had date once i had accident following week and been in the hospoital and she said she was mad when she didnt hear from me but she felt awful when found out i was in the hospital. Saw me day before yesterday for a little.

What should i do hit her up like few days try get her to come over again?
If she makes excuse what do i do? Also would you tease about being blown off?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude, aside from strategising with the ladies, what are you doing to be awesome at life? I mean that honestly. I see a lot of your threads and it seems that in most cases you'd be doing better with the ladies if you gave off the scent of kicking ass in the game of life rather than just gaming women. Just a thought. Maybe your whole strategy needs to be about being chased rather than chasing.
 
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