"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl seems to be into me but didnt come see me last night,

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As soon as I get done babysitting I'm coming to see you!!! yay! Can I lay in bed with you. :)

Sure
Can :)

Then she said good i didnt see hear from her around 10 i txtd hey just seeing when you coming. She callled like hour later said she dropping off and she going to city she heading over i said ok cya. Was midnight i txted falling asleep zzzzzzz.

So we had date once i had accident following week been in hospoital she said she was mad when didnt hear from me but felt awful when found out i was in hospital saw me day before yesterday for a little.

What should i do hit her up like few days try get her come over again?
If makes excuse what do i do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thelonewolflegend said:
hit her up like few days try get her come over again?
Hit her up until she comes over.
 
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How often u usually hit her up? Should i tease her this week when i hit her up about not coming to see me? Im in hospital so i think rules dont matter too much right?
 
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girl seems to be into me but didnt come see me last night,
As soon as I get done babysitting I'm coming to see you!!! yay! Can I lay in bed with you.

Sure
Can

Then she said, Good. Then i didnt see or hear from her so at 10 i txtd her, hey just seeing when you coming. She callled like hour later said she dropping off and she going to city and she heading over i said ok cya. Was midnight and noshow so i txted falling asleep zzzzzzz.

So we had date once i had accident following week and been in the hospoital and she said she was mad when she didnt hear from me but she felt awful when found out i was in the hospital. Saw me day before yesterday for a little.

What should i do hit her up like few days try get her to come over again?
If she makes excuse what do i do? Also would you tease about being blown off?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, aside from strategising with the ladies, what are you doing to be awesome at life? I mean that honestly. I see a lot of your threads and it seems that in most cases you'd be doing better with the ladies if you gave off the scent of kicking ass in the game of life rather than just gaming women. Just a thought. Maybe your whole strategy needs to be about being chased rather than chasing.
 
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