playerone
Senior Don Juan
If the girl asks why aren't you treating her to the dinner and movies on the first date when you're going dutch, how do you reply from a DJ's point of view to not seem like a typical miser?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girl says why aren't you treating me on the first date?
- Thread starter playerone
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Crazy Asian
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"just because it's a first date. I don't know you well enough ....yet 
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"Tell her that if she really wants too you won't have a problem taking her out to eat at McDonald's and then come over to your place to watch a DVD.
and then say after she gives you the wtf face "whats the matter, now dinner and a movie isn't good enough for you"?
and then say after she gives you the wtf face "whats the matter, now dinner and a movie isn't good enough for you"?
epicwinner
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who says this is a date? :crazy:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.