playerone
Senior Don Juan
If the girl asks why aren't you treating her to the dinner and movies on the first date when you're going dutch, how do you reply from a DJ's point of view to not seem like a typical miser?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girl says why aren't you treating me on the first date?
- Thread starter playerone
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Crazy Asian
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"just because it's a first date. I don't know you well enough ....yet 
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"Tell her that if she really wants too you won't have a problem taking her out to eat at McDonald's and then come over to your place to watch a DVD.
and then say after she gives you the wtf face "whats the matter, now dinner and a movie isn't good enough for you"?
and then say after she gives you the wtf face "whats the matter, now dinner and a movie isn't good enough for you"?
epicwinner
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who says this is a date? :crazy:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.