PrettyBoyAJ
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She tryed to use you and you said no. There's only one right way.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girl says that shes just a tease, is this a lost cause? Need help!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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i dont want to date her man. just want a fb.Danger said:
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Well she did offer to pay $20 for the gas at least. So that might be a lesser degree of using me don't you think?PrettyBoyAJ said:
she's just using you, and she is just bad news for your life, surround yourself with people that can improve your life, not drain you.
you would have never seen that $20. and if you did, she probably "borrowed" it from another guy by telling him another pack of lies, she wouldn't have given you any money she earned, even if her wallet was stuffed with $20 bills.\
and yes it obvious you want to date her, hoping she would magically change and settle down. she won't. she'll most likely end up in an abusive relationship, and dont feel sorry for her when she does.
you would have never seen that $20. and if you did, she probably "borrowed" it from another guy by telling him another pack of lies, she wouldn't have given you any money she earned, even if her wallet was stuffed with $20 bills.\
and yes it obvious you want to date her, hoping she would magically change and settle down. she won't. she'll most likely end up in an abusive relationship, and dont feel sorry for her when she does.
to be honest, you are wasting your time here, not only does she seem to just have her cake and eat it too, you lost the frame in my view
when she asked you to drive her, you either do it or dont. So you were watching the game which makes you busy, so you tell her you cant do it, because well frankly, you cant since you are doing something. You then wanted to negotiate how much money she would pay you, when I heard I knew this was going nowhere. After you told her your busy, and she trieds to entice you with money, it should not matter.
You want her and she knows it, and making you jump through hoops to see if you would do it. Looks like you would and Im sure she finds you less attractive because of it. Plus look at your title, she knows shes a tease and tells you, dont you think shes teasing you now?
when she asked you to drive her, you either do it or dont. So you were watching the game which makes you busy, so you tell her you cant do it, because well frankly, you cant since you are doing something. You then wanted to negotiate how much money she would pay you, when I heard I knew this was going nowhere. After you told her your busy, and she trieds to entice you with money, it should not matter.
You want her and she knows it, and making you jump through hoops to see if you would do it. Looks like you would and Im sure she finds you less attractive because of it. Plus look at your title, she knows shes a tease and tells you, dont you think shes teasing you now?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PrettyBoyAJ
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Theres no such things as levels of using you. Either she is or she isnt.
bilboteabaggins
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setup another club date with her, but bring a hot girl with you and see if this c0ck tease gets jealous and you will know if there is anything there, from the sound of things there might be a small thing there but she has much better options, you are 100 on the list, stop being a AFC!!!!!!!!!!!
try this out though...you might get a fvck or bj out of it at least
try this out though...you might get a fvck or bj out of it at least
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Does she dance with you in the club or mostly ignore you and dance with other guys? I'm guessing it is the later. She is an attention wh@re. There's not much you can do. At best, you can use her for social proof at the club if you like.
As an AW, I don't think she has any intentions of hooking up with you. I'm willing to bet my last dollar that she already has a fb or an ex that secretly takes care of her needs off and on. (Dont ask her about this. She will deny it.). She isn't going home with guys at the club or hooking up with you because somebody is already keeping her satisfied. Despite her seemingly innocent ways, she isn't taking the vow of celibacy.
As for the makeout, that means nothing to a club girl. I'm
sorry bro. I would move on.
As an AW, I don't think she has any intentions of hooking up with you. I'm willing to bet my last dollar that she already has a fb or an ex that secretly takes care of her needs off and on. (Dont ask her about this. She will deny it.). She isn't going home with guys at the club or hooking up with you because somebody is already keeping her satisfied. Despite her seemingly innocent ways, she isn't taking the vow of celibacy.
As for the makeout, that means nothing to a club girl. I'm
sorry bro. I would move on.