PrettyBoyAJ
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She tryed to use you and you said no. There's only one right way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girl says that shes just a tease, is this a lost cause? Need help!
- Thread starter gspshields2
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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i dont want to date her man. just want a fb.Danger said:
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Well she did offer to pay $20 for the gas at least. So that might be a lesser degree of using me don't you think?PrettyBoyAJ said:
she's just using you, and she is just bad news for your life, surround yourself with people that can improve your life, not drain you.
you would have never seen that $20. and if you did, she probably "borrowed" it from another guy by telling him another pack of lies, she wouldn't have given you any money she earned, even if her wallet was stuffed with $20 bills.\
and yes it obvious you want to date her, hoping she would magically change and settle down. she won't. she'll most likely end up in an abusive relationship, and dont feel sorry for her when she does.
you would have never seen that $20. and if you did, she probably "borrowed" it from another guy by telling him another pack of lies, she wouldn't have given you any money she earned, even if her wallet was stuffed with $20 bills.\
and yes it obvious you want to date her, hoping she would magically change and settle down. she won't. she'll most likely end up in an abusive relationship, and dont feel sorry for her when she does.
to be honest, you are wasting your time here, not only does she seem to just have her cake and eat it too, you lost the frame in my view
when she asked you to drive her, you either do it or dont. So you were watching the game which makes you busy, so you tell her you cant do it, because well frankly, you cant since you are doing something. You then wanted to negotiate how much money she would pay you, when I heard I knew this was going nowhere. After you told her your busy, and she trieds to entice you with money, it should not matter.
You want her and she knows it, and making you jump through hoops to see if you would do it. Looks like you would and Im sure she finds you less attractive because of it. Plus look at your title, she knows shes a tease and tells you, dont you think shes teasing you now?
when she asked you to drive her, you either do it or dont. So you were watching the game which makes you busy, so you tell her you cant do it, because well frankly, you cant since you are doing something. You then wanted to negotiate how much money she would pay you, when I heard I knew this was going nowhere. After you told her your busy, and she trieds to entice you with money, it should not matter.
You want her and she knows it, and making you jump through hoops to see if you would do it. Looks like you would and Im sure she finds you less attractive because of it. Plus look at your title, she knows shes a tease and tells you, dont you think shes teasing you now?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PrettyBoyAJ
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Theres no such things as levels of using you. Either she is or she isnt.
bilboteabaggins
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setup another club date with her, but bring a hot girl with you and see if this c0ck tease gets jealous and you will know if there is anything there, from the sound of things there might be a small thing there but she has much better options, you are 100 on the list, stop being a AFC!!!!!!!!!!!
try this out though...you might get a fvck or bj out of it at least
try this out though...you might get a fvck or bj out of it at least
Mike32ct
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Does she dance with you in the club or mostly ignore you and dance with other guys? I'm guessing it is the later. She is an attention wh@re. There's not much you can do. At best, you can use her for social proof at the club if you like.
As an AW, I don't think she has any intentions of hooking up with you. I'm willing to bet my last dollar that she already has a fb or an ex that secretly takes care of her needs off and on. (Dont ask her about this. She will deny it.). She isn't going home with guys at the club or hooking up with you because somebody is already keeping her satisfied. Despite her seemingly innocent ways, she isn't taking the vow of celibacy.
As for the makeout, that means nothing to a club girl. I'm
sorry bro. I would move on.
As an AW, I don't think she has any intentions of hooking up with you. I'm willing to bet my last dollar that she already has a fb or an ex that secretly takes care of her needs off and on. (Dont ask her about this. She will deny it.). She isn't going home with guys at the club or hooking up with you because somebody is already keeping her satisfied. Despite her seemingly innocent ways, she isn't taking the vow of celibacy.
As for the makeout, that means nothing to a club girl. I'm
sorry bro. I would move on.