and yet she insists on calling/textign me everyday of her life. she even gave ME her number and everything, without any effort on my part. we talk alot and have similar personalities. i hit her with the ****y funny and she likes it, but when i ask her out, she says she'll "think" about it. even my being decisive doesnt help, because she still says it. wat the hell is this? seems to me if she was into me she would jump at the chance to go out.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
girl says she'll "think" about going on a date
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So what's your question?Raikojo17 said:... seems to me if she was into me she would jump at the chance to go out.
sorry, tried to edit it but it wouldnt let me. but is this some type of game she is tryin to play? because other than that she shows very much positive interest towards me.Francisco d'Anconia said:So what's your question?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I believe that any answer other than "yes" answer is a no. Drop the subject, and move on.Raikojo17 said:and yet she insists on calling/textign me everyday of her life. she even gave ME her number and everything, without any effort on my part. we talk alot and have similar personalities. i hit her with the ****y funny and she likes it, but when i ask her out, she says she'll "think" about it. even my being decisive doesnt help, because she still says it. wat the hell is this? seems to me if she was into me she would jump at the chance to go out.
So she gets nothing! She loses! Good day, madam!
The Comeback Kid
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I agree with this.Aaron B said:She loses.
Plain and simple, she loses.
She is unwilling to go along with your program, so she loses out to the women who are truly interested in you as a person.
In these situations, I am not content with "waiting" for her to decide...I get a decision out of her, for better or for worse. No, I don't really "force" it, but I will start discussion plans for our date - this shows confidence as well. Sure, she gets the attention she wants, but it also doesn't leave you dangling. Either:
A.) You'll get the date - congrats!
B.) It's her loss.
If you get the date, then your're set. If not, then it allows you to flirt/mack with other chicks and not have this one on your mind.
I compare this to a pitcher (you) charging at a runner who is stuck between
3rd and home and the runner (girl) has to make a decision on where to go.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
kdnash82
Master Don Juan
Before I even read the comments below I decided it was a lost cause. Cut your strings, find someone else and see what happens. And I mean this. Do not call, text, instant message, nothing for about 2 weekends, even if she calls or texts. After that, when you call and she asks why you didn't call her, don't make up an excuse, but don't make it seem like you're changing the subject on purpose.
Ace_McGregor
Don Juan
If you've got that "feeling" that she is into you, then she's probably testing you with this, "I'll think about it" crap.
Maybe your problem is you're being too open ended on how you're asking for the date (Do you want to go out sometime?)..... be specific.... say something like, "Hey let's go out Tuesday night blah blah..." If she hits you with the "I'll think about it line" then freeze her out. Let her know your not going to beg for the date like a loser. Say something like, "Oh hey... someone's knocking at my door, can I call you right back?" Then don't call her (or respond to her calls) for a few days to a week. Then call back and ask for the date again. If she pulls the same crap ditch her.
Maybe your problem is you're being too open ended on how you're asking for the date (Do you want to go out sometime?)..... be specific.... say something like, "Hey let's go out Tuesday night blah blah..." If she hits you with the "I'll think about it line" then freeze her out. Let her know your not going to beg for the date like a loser. Say something like, "Oh hey... someone's knocking at my door, can I call you right back?" Then don't call her (or respond to her calls) for a few days to a week. Then call back and ask for the date again. If she pulls the same crap ditch her.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Sounds like she wants to keep you wanting her, but she doesnt really want it. Sorry pal. Next that skank.
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Dude, you need to UP your sexual attitude, sexual state, seductive mindset, seductiveness.
No matter what your mother says, no matter what women say, no matter what some of these guys say on this forum.....women are ONLY going to FVCK the guy with a HIGH SEXUAL VIBE. You need to carry a high sexual state, if you don't, you AIN'T getting no azz, period.
Stop with all the theories and analyzing what she said, how she moved, how she ate her popcorn at Norbit, read Gunwitch, he explains this better than I do.
No matter what your mother says, no matter what women say, no matter what some of these guys say on this forum.....women are ONLY going to FVCK the guy with a HIGH SEXUAL VIBE. You need to carry a high sexual state, if you don't, you AIN'T getting no azz, period.
Stop with all the theories and analyzing what she said, how she moved, how she ate her popcorn at Norbit, read Gunwitch, he explains this better than I do.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
no Raikojo this chick isnt showing u positive interest. I dont know how u came up with something silly like that. Ur saying that a girl shows positive interest in a guy when she calls him and then doesnt want to go out with him. What planet have u been living on?
ACTIONS speak louder than WORDS. Its that simple. When u want to know a girls interest in u , u look at her actions. She might give u compliments, she might be phoning u ( and the reason she might be phoning u is because she loves the attention of talking to guys on the phone), but the bottom line is that her actions arent showing u she likes u. If she liked u, she would show it with her actions by going out with u.
ACTIONS speak louder than WORDS. Its that simple. When u want to know a girls interest in u , u look at her actions. She might give u compliments, she might be phoning u ( and the reason she might be phoning u is because she loves the attention of talking to guys on the phone), but the bottom line is that her actions arent showing u she likes u. If she liked u, she would show it with her actions by going out with u.
Kev07
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next time she texts or calls, just tell her, "hey lets talk this over some cofee/jamba/insert other idea.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You answered your own question in your original post.Raikojo17 said:sorry, tried to edit it but it wouldnt let me. but is this some type of game she is tryin to play? because other than that she shows very much positive interest towards me.
so get this. she's now telling me to call her so we can arrange a get together. she is bringing one of her friends, and she's asking to bring one of my friends for her friend. she also agreed to our little date too, saying that she had to see wat her mom was doing first. I guess she was just playing hard to get, cuz she and her friend are tryin to get me to call her, and she's callin me "beasty",soo...
silenthill
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just wait and watch her flake
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.