"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl says she'll call, but doesnt. Whats the next move?

gimmeyofonenumba

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I called her tryna setup a date, we were disussing for tommorrow. She texted me she was looking forward to it, but would call me that night or today. No call so far. Sarge on, or initiate contact one more time before the date?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EFFORT

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
I called her tryna setup a date, we were disussing for tommorrow. She texted me she was looking forward to it, but would call me that night or today. No call so far. Sarge on, or initiate contact one more time before the date?
Sarge on
 

8ball

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Nah...I dont' agree with the sarge on comments and here's why:

You contact her, get a date..you're golden.

You don't...who knows?

Most women feed on that **** that the man has to take charge and make a move.

Make a move. Who really cares? Best case, you'll be banging fine *****, worst case..exactly where you are now
 

tsarquise

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No you move on to other things in life... If you ever see her again... You can try her again.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Johnnyventana

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Do NOT call her or contact her. You don't have to NEXT her, but she said she would contact you, and didn't. Not Good.

Do not chase however, that will only make it worse.

Do nothing. It's easy. If you try.
 

HGKnights

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I'd say take the initiative to call her, I've really learned not to expect them to call you.

However, if that ends up falling through, NEXT!
 

Von_S

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Do we really have to keep answering this question? OP, You've got 400+ posts and have been been a member for 6 years, you don't know that when a girl blows you off your immediate response is to move on? I know I sound like a d!ck but why to posts like this pop up every day?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

SamTheHobit

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To stop asking stupid questions like this.
 
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