"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl says she'll call, but doesnt. Whats the next move?

gimmeyofonenumba

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I called her tryna setup a date, we were disussing for tommorrow. She texted me she was looking forward to it, but would call me that night or today. No call so far. Sarge on, or initiate contact one more time before the date?
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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EFFORT

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
I called her tryna setup a date, we were disussing for tommorrow. She texted me she was looking forward to it, but would call me that night or today. No call so far. Sarge on, or initiate contact one more time before the date?
Sarge on
 

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Nah...I dont' agree with the sarge on comments and here's why:

You contact her, get a date..you're golden.

You don't...who knows?

Most women feed on that **** that the man has to take charge and make a move.

Make a move. Who really cares? Best case, you'll be banging fine *****, worst case..exactly where you are now
 

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No you move on to other things in life... If you ever see her again... You can try her again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Johnnyventana

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Do NOT call her or contact her. You don't have to NEXT her, but she said she would contact you, and didn't. Not Good.

Do not chase however, that will only make it worse.

Do nothing. It's easy. If you try.
 

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I'd say take the initiative to call her, I've really learned not to expect them to call you.

However, if that ends up falling through, NEXT!
 

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Do we really have to keep answering this question? OP, You've got 400+ posts and have been been a member for 6 years, you don't know that when a girl blows you off your immediate response is to move on? I know I sound like a d!ck but why to posts like this pop up every day?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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To stop asking stupid questions like this.
 
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