"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl Says She Wants to be Best Friends but..

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So there is this girl I liked, and we talked a lot during school last year. I start my senior year this Thursday, btw. But over the summer, we probably only talked eight times and hung out twice. We did not keep in touch as much as we wanted and I moved on and got a gf, but who I am unsure of at the moment.

Well anyways, this girl messages me last night saying "you never told me you got a gf" and she says "I thought we were better friends because you should have told me." She also keeps calling us "bff's" but we barely talked over the summer or even hang out much outside of school...How can a bff be a bff if they barely talk or hang out outside of school?? And she denies that I called her or asked her to hang out earlier, when I KNOW for a fact I did a few times...She kept on getting mad because I did not consider us bff's because hey, we barely talked and we only talk in school.

So am I missing something here? Does maybe she see me as more than a best friend? Or what?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She keeps saying how "we are best friends" which is very odd because we don't talk much anymore, nor hang out as much as a typical "best friend" would be. Then I asked her "why am I considered your best friend" and she is like "it's fun to have best friends..."I know she doesn't get much attention from guys even though she is good looking, which is funny; so maybe she just wants some attention? How would you guys handle this--she gets mad when I tell her we are not best friends and she says anyway that we "should be bff..."
 
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