"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi guys was having a chat with one of the girls at my work who i have been interested for the whole time she has been there. Anyway in the convo i asked her what's new. she then says well dont' tell any1 but i'm single now and broke up with my BF. so then i replied with wow Ok.. then i said hey i'm single too i just been broken up with my GF recently. Just as i was about to ask her if she was back on the dating scene her boss walks in the kitchen room and our convo was cut short haha.. I already have her number from the past ages ago.

She seems receptive to most of my msg's. What do u guys reckon i should do from here??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ah only thing is this is a girl i got in trouble b4 @ work n got told off to back off from as i asked her if she wanted a lift to her car in the carpark. It was joke as her car was only like couple of meters down n n she told HR n my boss had a talk to me.. so i'm a bit cautious.. but the fact she hasn't told any1 and only me she is single is well confusing.
 
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Take it from experience, work and girls don't mix. If you care about your job at all, avoid this girl. She already reported you to HR once, what makes you think she won't do it again if something doesn't go quite her way?

There are lots of girls out there, go get one of those!
 
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This chick made a HR report about you?

Even if she had a change of heart, she's obviously f**ked up in the head. Can't you find better women to spend your time with?

I don't care about this "secret" she told you. She made a HR report about you...So either she's an uptight weirdo, an attention wh0re, or you are such a creepy perv that her HR report was justified.

You're considering asking this girl out? Seriously? Wait no...seriously? Sometimes the level of desperation on this site makes me sad.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From what my Boss told me young girls have a different perception and can act immature.. i wasn't in trouble i just got told to watch it.. Thing is i am good friends with her know and that was in the past.. I remember i was with my current GF at the time and i said hi to her n she totally ignored me n stared @ my girl.. seemed a bit jealous methinks???

I actually like this girl but asking her out I am not so sure that is y i asked for advice here..
 
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Sesar said:
From what my Boss told me young girls have a different perception and can act immature.. i wasn't in trouble i just got told to watch it.. Thing is i am good friends with her know and that was in the past.. I remember i was with my current GF at the time and i said hi to her n she totally ignored me n stared @ my girl.. seemed a bit jealous methinks???

I actually like this girl but asking her out I am not so sure that is y i asked for advice here..
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Right. And you said you're not sure because there was an HR complaint between you and this girl.

And then I responded to that.

As far as what your Boss said about young girls having a different perception, that's bullsh*t. That girl isn't 5 years old. She knows what she was doing.

Sorry, bro. Unless you think it's a normal part of a man's life to date women who try to throw sexual harassment complaints at them, then you'd know better. This question is so dumb, it's amazing. I'm amazed by the stupidity.

Good luck dating a girl who complains to HR about you. You're well on the path to success, fame, and fortune.
 
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Well then!!! Thanks 4 telling me the answer i knew all along and confirming it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She seems receptive to most of my msg's. What do u guys reckon i should do from here??
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stop talking about relationships... its cheesy and lame.. you need to flirt and get her in sex mode and get her to you pace and F a few times then she must ask you to be her man and you say no cause you work together......
 
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If a girl reported me to HR for something as a minor as making joke about giving her a lift, I'd be stabbing needles into a Voodoo doll with her faced pinned onto it, not trying to get her out on a date.

Never mix work with pleasure, Bill Clinton did that and look what happened.
 
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