AlexTheGreat
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Is that good or not ? They usually say it while laughing, but some don't ....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
girl says I'm weird ...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DO NOT ENTER my butt
Don Juan
That's so stupid.
Why are you asking if it's a good weird or bad weird on a message board? Just ask it to their face. When that question is asked, instinctly reply with a smile, "Hmmmm, good weird or bad weird?" The girls who laugh most likely are interested in you despite what they say. Psycology 101: people don't have to say hi, bye or even acknowledge the fact you are alive. They do it out of respect. These girls sound like they are playfully stating you are weird, hence they must really "respect" you.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
"You're unique"?
I've yet to hear a girl say that. They're usually not intellectual enough to know the defintion.
I kid, I kid.
Its good usually. I'm pretty weird though. Girls never tell em I'm weird, btu I know they think it. Now i think thats probably a bad thing
I've yet to hear a girl say that. They're usually not intellectual enough to know the defintion.
I kid, I kid.
Its good usually. I'm pretty weird though. Girls never tell em I'm weird, btu I know they think it. Now i think thats probably a bad thing
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ask her why you SEEM weird to her. Don't ask her why you're weird, that's immplying tht you think you are too.
Everyone is weird to other people. The definition of weird is "different".
There are people different than you that you probably think are "weird" but they aren't weird to others....
Just don't worry that ONE girl thinks you're weird.....worry when ALOT girls think that you're weird.
Everyone is weird to other people. The definition of weird is "different".
There are people different than you that you probably think are "weird" but they aren't weird to others....
Just don't worry that ONE girl thinks you're weird.....worry when ALOT girls think that you're weird.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I've been called wierd before
I don't let it bother me because I know that I am a deviant and have been called that in soc because I don't follow the crowd and do the norms of the boys at school. Why? Because all of the guys at my school will do anything for some pu$$y. I think that it is actually quite sad because they sacrificed things to get it too
I don't really care though
I have also been called 'wierd' by alot of family members because of my views and my actions. The only thing is that I back my stuff up.
I have also been told that "You are like no other guy around here" Good or Bad? Don't know and Don't care. Why? Because I got tired of trying to please people and fix my attitude to make them happy and act 'normal' deemed worthy by the person who is making the statement. Bah it is not my place to act 'normal' it is my place to act like myself. I tried the whole be the DJ but I started to act robotic after a couple of days and quit and just became myself.
now I'm rambling
I don't let it bother me because I know that I am a deviant and have been called that in soc because I don't follow the crowd and do the norms of the boys at school. Why? Because all of the guys at my school will do anything for some pu$$y. I think that it is actually quite sad because they sacrificed things to get it too
I don't really care though
I have also been called 'wierd' by alot of family members because of my views and my actions. The only thing is that I back my stuff up.
I have also been told that "You are like no other guy around here" Good or Bad? Don't know and Don't care. Why? Because I got tired of trying to please people and fix my attitude to make them happy and act 'normal' deemed worthy by the person who is making the statement. Bah it is not my place to act 'normal' it is my place to act like myself. I tried the whole be the DJ but I started to act robotic after a couple of days and quit and just became myself.
now I'm rambling
weird is an interesting word, it could be good or bad. it all depends on the context and the way it is said. If she's laughing while saying it, shes probably teasing you light-heartedly. If she looks very serious and disgusted at you, thats not a good thing Just use your best judgement, and if you really can't tell just ask her.
Just use your best judgement, and if you really can't tell just ask her.