I was talking to a guy who has a reputation as a major player in a club I recently visited. He says that more often than not, a girl who says this to you, and who you can tell is into you, wants to have sex with you. What do you guys think? Any experiences to verify this?
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Girl Says: "I'm Going To the Bathroom"
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Abbott
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Huh?
Sometimes I think those who post here try to read into things too much.
If someone said that to me, I'd consider it a completely reasonable statement that doesn't mean anything more than what the words mean.
Sometimes I think those who post here try to read into things too much.
If someone said that to me, I'd consider it a completely reasonable statement that doesn't mean anything more than what the words mean.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
No! "I 'm going to the bathroom" means she has to PEE! I have also seen it used to make sure a guy doesn't follow you when you try to ditch him and run for the back door.
Now if she says "I'm going to the BEDROOM" I suggest you follow closely because you just might get lucky
Now if she says "I'm going to the BEDROOM" I suggest you follow closely because you just might get lucky
Docs
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I've had it when her and her girl friend(s) will go to the bathroom...come back and still be engaged. (thus, it's your midterm report in secret).
flows101
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No. Usually if girls go to the toilet together while in the company of some top Don Juns it’s because they feel it’s the only place they can “talk privately”.
It doesn’t mean they plan on sleeping with them, tho some times this CAN be the case and they need to go some where quite (toilets) to work out the logistics “which girls going home with which guy and so forth”.
It doesn’t mean they plan on sleeping with them, tho some times this CAN be the case and they need to go some where quite (toilets) to work out the logistics “which girls going home with which guy and so forth”.
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
no. all wrong.
when i used to be a single gal and go clubbin and wanted to get away from some dude that was following me around i would say i had to go to the bathroom so i could walk away and ditch him.
and then i did not go into the bathroom 90% of the time, i just went to another part of the club and got another beer.
sometimes i really did have to go to the bathroom but only 10% of the time did i announce it.
when i used to be a single gal and go clubbin and wanted to get away from some dude that was following me around i would say i had to go to the bathroom so i could walk away and ditch him.
and then i did not go into the bathroom 90% of the time, i just went to another part of the club and got another beer.
sometimes i really did have to go to the bathroom but only 10% of the time did i announce it.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
you are reading WAAAAAAY to much into things....
she might have to use the tinker.
it doesn' tmatter anyway.. you are already her friend
she might have to use the tinker.
it doesn' tmatter anyway.. you are already her friend
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depends on how long you were talking to her...sometimes its an escape mechanism and they don't come back.....sometimes they do.....when they do say something like that, i move around and bump into them later. i'm not going to just stand there while i wait for her to come back from the rest room.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
then what could you say if you went to another part of the club and bumped into her later? you say... "thought you fell in back there"randomusername said:
lol
Well guys this is funny because last night I was in a girls bathroom in a cubicle getting it on with a lovely lady untill the girl in the cubicle next to us had too much curry for one night and started unleashing in the toilet...IT WAS EVERYWHERE ALL OVER THE WALLS!!!
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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Did you ask him "why?"total_afc said:
What a fuucking tool! :crackup:
Here's when a girl wants to have sex with you:
When she:
-is turned on, and wet (because of you)
-is making-out with you and grinding her body on you
-takes off your clothes
-is a worthless warhog
-wants your ca$h
Get some real material.
Here's when a girl wants to have sex with you:
When she:
-is turned on, and wet (because of you)
-is making-out with you and grinding her body on you
-takes off your clothes
-is a worthless warhog
-wants your ca$h
Get some real material.
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penkitten said:
yes. or just say you were getting a drink and lost track of her. you'll look like a tool if ur just waiting there for her to come back....except if ur at a table, then who cares....
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I find that when I neg a girl (especially if she's or/and her girlfriend is fat), they'll goto the bathroom to primp more, but they're thinking to themselves "Now, I know I've got Big titties and I'm showing it. Now, why doesn't this guy want me or you (in spite of our fatness)?" Well, because you're FAT...