I was talking to a guy who has a reputation as a major player in a club I recently visited. He says that more often than not, a girl who says this to you, and who you can tell is into you, wants to have sex with you. What do you guys think? Any experiences to verify this?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl Says: "I'm Going To the Bathroom"
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Huh?
Sometimes I think those who post here try to read into things too much.
If someone said that to me, I'd consider it a completely reasonable statement that doesn't mean anything more than what the words mean.
Sometimes I think those who post here try to read into things too much.
If someone said that to me, I'd consider it a completely reasonable statement that doesn't mean anything more than what the words mean.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
No! "I 'm going to the bathroom" means she has to PEE! I have also seen it used to make sure a guy doesn't follow you when you try to ditch him and run for the back door.
Now if she says "I'm going to the BEDROOM" I suggest you follow closely because you just might get lucky
Now if she says "I'm going to the BEDROOM" I suggest you follow closely because you just might get lucky
Docs
Banned
I've had it when her and her girl friend(s) will go to the bathroom...come back and still be engaged. (thus, it's your midterm report in secret).
flows101
Don Juan
No. Usually if girls go to the toilet together while in the company of some top Don Juns it’s because they feel it’s the only place they can “talk privately”.
It doesn’t mean they plan on sleeping with them, tho some times this CAN be the case and they need to go some where quite (toilets) to work out the logistics “which girls going home with which guy and so forth”.
It doesn’t mean they plan on sleeping with them, tho some times this CAN be the case and they need to go some where quite (toilets) to work out the logistics “which girls going home with which guy and so forth”.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no. all wrong.
when i used to be a single gal and go clubbin and wanted to get away from some dude that was following me around i would say i had to go to the bathroom so i could walk away and ditch him.
and then i did not go into the bathroom 90% of the time, i just went to another part of the club and got another beer.
sometimes i really did have to go to the bathroom but only 10% of the time did i announce it.
when i used to be a single gal and go clubbin and wanted to get away from some dude that was following me around i would say i had to go to the bathroom so i could walk away and ditch him.
and then i did not go into the bathroom 90% of the time, i just went to another part of the club and got another beer.
sometimes i really did have to go to the bathroom but only 10% of the time did i announce it.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
you are reading WAAAAAAY to much into things....
she might have to use the tinker.
it doesn' tmatter anyway.. you are already her friend
she might have to use the tinker.
it doesn' tmatter anyway.. you are already her friend
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depends on how long you were talking to her...sometimes its an escape mechanism and they don't come back.....sometimes they do.....when they do say something like that, i move around and bump into them later. i'm not going to just stand there while i wait for her to come back from the rest room.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
then what could you say if you went to another part of the club and bumped into her later? you say... "thought you fell in back there"randomusername said:
lol
Well guys this is funny because last night I was in a girls bathroom in a cubicle getting it on with a lovely lady untill the girl in the cubicle next to us had too much curry for one night and started unleashing in the toilet...IT WAS EVERYWHERE ALL OVER THE WALLS!!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Did you ask him "why?"total_afc said:
What a fuucking tool! :crackup:
Here's when a girl wants to have sex with you:
When she:
-is turned on, and wet (because of you)
-is making-out with you and grinding her body on you
-takes off your clothes
-is a worthless warhog
-wants your ca$h
Get some real material.
Here's when a girl wants to have sex with you:
When she:
-is turned on, and wet (because of you)
-is making-out with you and grinding her body on you
-takes off your clothes
-is a worthless warhog
-wants your ca$h
Get some real material.
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penkitten said:
yes. or just say you were getting a drink and lost track of her. you'll look like a tool if ur just waiting there for her to come back....except if ur at a table, then who cares....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I find that when I neg a girl (especially if she's or/and her girlfriend is fat), they'll goto the bathroom to primp more, but they're thinking to themselves "Now, I know I've got Big titties and I'm showing it. Now, why doesn't this guy want me or you (in spite of our fatness)?" Well, because you're FAT...