girl says "ill let you know", what does this mean?

[void957]

ok most ppl wil says hes not interested,#

but in person she was very, i asked for her number directly, she giggled and gave it to me with no hesitation;

heres how our text went

Me-- Hey it's void957
Her- Hey
Me- What have you been up to?
Her- Just doing the usual. hby?
Me- just getting some work done.
Me(next day)- shall we hangout tomorrow or wednesday lunch?
her- Ill let you know
Me- sure thing


Noticed how i used Master of the Universes "sale asssumption technique" to ask her out.
do u think she doesnt wanna hangout?

btw she goes to my college so we have the same lunches .

thanks brothers.

 

[bigneil]

(First at bat)

"OP -- Hey it's void957
STRIKE 1 - She should be writing to you.
Her- Hey
STRIKE 2 - She should at least respond with a question of some kind.
OP - What have you been up to?
Her- Just doing the usual. hby?
BALL 1
OP - just getting some work done.
STRIKE 3 - She didn't write back.

(Second at bat)

OP (next day)- shall we hangout tomorrow or wednesday lunch?
STRIKE 1 - You are initiating again when she didn't respond.
her- Ill let you know
STRIKE 2 - Read the last syllable. No.
OP - sure thing"
STRIKE 3 (foul tip dropped) - You actually coddle her indirect no!
STRIKE 3 (swinging) - You needed our help to figure this out.

-----------------------------
Box Score: AB 2 H 0 R 0 RBI 0 2B 0 3B 0 HR 0 BB 0 K 2

 

[pyros]

Not interested.

If she was she would have told you which day rightaway, so you could have set up a time etc.

Think about it if it was the other way around. If SHE was the one asking you out, if you were interested, you would by no means tell her: "I'll let you know" wouldnt you? LOL.

 

[skinnyguy]

That means she probably won't let you know lmao

 

[Heisenberg]

(First at bat)

"OP -- Hey it's void957
STRIKE 1 - She should be writing to you.
Her- Hey
STRIKE 2 - She should at least respond with a question of some kind.
OP - What have you been up to?
Her- Just doing the usual. hby?
BALL 1
OP - just getting some work done.
STRIKE 3 - She didn't write back.

(Second at bat)

OP (next day)- shall we hangout tomorrow or wednesday lunch?
STRIKE 1 - You are initiating again when she didn't respond.
her- Ill let you know
STRIKE 2 - Read the last syllable. No.
OP - sure thing"
STRIKE 3 (foul tip dropped) - You actually coddle her indirect no!
STRIKE 3 (swinging) - You needed our help to figure this out.

-----------------------------
Box Score: AB 2 H 0 R 0 RBI 0 2B 0 3B 0 HR 0 BB 0 K 2

OP, have you ever seen Moneyball? bigneil is Billy Beane, and you're Mike Magnante.

"Mike, I need you to stop getting dressed."

Use the time down in the minors to get yourself sorted out.

 

[mikey2012]

Means No. Stop wasting time with her and find someone else.

 

[skinnyguy]

Your conversation shows how much power women have when it comes to dating.

 

[Bible_Belt]

#1 principle of translating female-speak is inversion...where there is ambiguity, add a negative to her statement. So, she probably wont let you know.

The rule I use is to preface everything with "I feel as though." So I agree that the answer was 'probably not,' but at the same time that's just how she felt the moment she sent the text. I think if the OP runs into her next weekend when she's out drinking and having a good time, her answer may likely be very different. Women's emotions change like the weather.

 

[DragonBlood]

Me-- Hey it's void957
Her- Hey
Me- What have you been up to?
Her- Just doing the usual. hby?
Me- just getting some work done.
Me(next day)- shall we hangout tomorrow or wednesday lunch?
her- Ill let you know
Me- sure thing

Double texting after she IGNORED you and another mistake giving her the frame by responding to her flaky text in any way. "sure thing" aka I have no problem with you walking all over me.



Here is how I would have handled the texting. First of all I would never get a girls number unless we already agreed to meet. It seems this number you have serves no purpose? I ask them out on the spot, now have a reason for the number if they accept, and I let them know I will text them later that night. Might even get them to give me some preliminary days. The more you can do with her in person the better, dont hide behind the phone.

DB: Hey <girl> it was nice meeting you today
HB: nice meeting you too
DB: What time do you finish Wednesday (date idea was already agreed upon in person)
HB: 5:20 <bla bla bla>
DB: Cool lets meet up outside the cafe at 6.
HB: see you then
<no more texting!!!>

Its unclear what you wanted from the beginning, plus the fact the girls interest was only so-so. Then you come in with a massively desperate attempt to ask her out because she was ignoring you and you got scared. Her interest was low and you failed the **** test. I wouldnt even mention or try asking this women out if you bump into her again. Get her to chase a bit more first. Im sure she is gossiping with her friends right now about how cool she is, how much she has you around her little finger, and is looking forward to you throwing yourself at her in person for that bit of validation you are looking for. She has chumps like you figured out, what she doesnt realise though, is you have SS watching your back to throw in a curve ball from time to time hahaha. Best thing you could do now is ignore her for awhile and ask out one of her hotter friends. Stop pandering and BSing yourself as fast as possible, be a man and go straight for the *****. Its not hard to come by. The ONLY correct response to a girl being vague is to date her friend. Are you her little man servant or are you someone she gets wet and anxious thinking about?

 

[stevo]

English: I'll let you know
Woomanese: I'll not let you know.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Your conversation shows how much power women have when it comes to dating.

indeed

at the risk of sounding like a complete cnt

i read that text example and was about to give up on humanity

i mean its painful for both of you

theres no emotion , no control and no effort it just sounds like 2 machines texting each other

next

 

[djthiago1]

Means she won't let you know. When girls like you they help you.

 

[void957]

(First at bat)

"OP -- Hey it's void957
STRIKE 1 - She should be writing to you.
Her- Hey
STRIKE 2 - She should at least respond with a question of some kind.
OP - What have you been up to?
Her- Just doing the usual. hby?
BALL 1
OP - just getting some work done.
STRIKE 3 - She didn't write back.

(Second at bat)

OP (next day)- shall we hangout tomorrow or wednesday lunch?
STRIKE 1 - You are initiating again when she didn't respond.
her- Ill let you know
STRIKE 2 - Read the last syllable. No.
OP - sure thing"
STRIKE 3 (foul tip dropped) - You actually coddle her indirect no!
STRIKE 3 (swinging) - You needed our help to figure this out.

-----------------------------
Box Score: AB 2 H 0 R 0 RBI 0 2B 0 3B 0 HR 0 BB 0 K 2

but theres no way she couldve initiated the convo, bc i got the number offf her so i had to message.##

she even told me to message her later on the day, but i did it the next day.

 

[void957]

Double texting after she IGNORED you and another mistake giving her the frame by responding to her flaky text in any way. "sure thing" aka I have no problem with you walking all over me.



Here is how I would have handled the texting. First of all I would never get a girls number unless we already agreed to meet. It seems this number you have serves no purpose? I ask them out on the spot, now have a reason for the number if they accept, and I let them know I will text them later that night. Might even get them to give me some preliminary days. The more you can do with her in person the better, dont hide behind the phone.

DB: Hey <girl> it was nice meeting you today
HB: nice meeting you too
DB: What time do you finish Wednesday (date idea was already agreed upon in person)
HB: 5:20 <bla bla bla>
DB: Cool lets meet up outside the cafe at 6.
HB: see you then
<no more texting!!!>

Its unclear what you wanted from the beginning, plus the fact the girls interest was only so-so. Then you come in with a massively desperate attempt to ask her out because she was ignoring you and you got scared. Her interest was low and you failed the **** test. I wouldnt even mention or try asking this women out if you bump into her again. Get her to chase a bit more first. Im sure she is gossiping with her friends right now about how cool she is, how much she has you around her little finger, and is looking forward to you throwing yourself at her in person for that bit of validation you are looking for. She has chumps like you figured out, what she doesnt realise though, is you have SS watching your back to throw in a curve ball from time to time hahaha. Best thing you could do now is ignore her for awhile and ask out one of her hotter friends. Stop pandering and BSing yourself as fast as possible, be a man and go straight for the *****. Its not hard to come by. The ONLY correct response to a girl being vague is to date her friend. Are you her little man servant or are you someone she gets wet and anxious thinking about?

thanks for your info, i havnt finished reading your post yet.

but just to let you know, im following the Anti Dump machine.
which states that you only ask her out over text and not in person, never in person.

i like your train of thought, but i do it differently.

thanks for the advice though.

 

[TheGambino]

Means her interest level isn't high.

 

[Eternal_water]

I won't let you know.

 

[GS750]

Means if the other guy I'm more interested doesn't work out...then I'll let you know.

 

[mangotot]

Its a polite way of saying 'No'.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

The second you asked this you knew that the answer would be no. You lost already simply by asking "[...], what does this mean?"

Read the DJ Bible my friend or else you are never gonna get anywhere.

 

[nismo-4]

She rejected you OP. Sorry.

Anything other than a yes with the proper actions to back it up is a no.

Case closed. Exit the courtroom.