Girl says I may be "the one" but.. should I believe her?

[Bible_Belt]

I would have a hard time not laughing if a woman said that to me. At the very least, I'd think of a quick "balancing" quip to respond to that immediately. Then, I'd think about what I said or did that even gave her the "balls" to make such a power-play statement in my presence.

The real question (if at all) should be if she is the one for you. You should be the one that's choosing, ....... or not choosing.

It is so critical to the DJ mindset to start thinking in terms of wondering how lucky a woman would be for you to pick her, not vise versa. If a woman wouldn't be super lucky for you to pick her, then you still have some work to do on you.

I was thinking exactly the same thing.

 

[pseudo_afc]

I would have a hard time not laughing if a woman said that to me. At the very least, I'd think of a quick "balancing" quip to respond to that immediately. Then, I'd think about what I said or did that even gave her the "balls" to make such a power-play statement in my presence.

The real question (if at all) should be if she is the one for you. You should be the one that's choosing, ....... or not choosing.

It is so critical to the DJ mindset to start thinking in terms of wondering how lucky a woman would be for you to pick her, not vise versa. If a woman wouldn't be super lucky for you to pick her, then you still have some work to do on you.

Damn. This really made me think and you are absolutely right. I had this mindset when I was single and girls were obsessed with me. Now that I'm in a relationship I think I just let my guard down which SUCKS. It's easy to do this when you get too comfortable. But I'm definitely going to work on this. Appreciate the insight.


-Pseudo AFC