"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl Says: "I Love You..."

mix_master

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So, here are some opportunities I missed out recently:

Friday:
"we were blowing/fvcking each other"

Thursday:
"I like d1ck!"

However, there's also another opportunity I should've reacted to in a positive way on Thursday.

There was a band setting up for their next set. There are a couple of girls seated up front (it's actually quite empty overall). One is zoning in and out, either sleepy, high, drunk, or a combination of all of the above.

"Are you girls with the band?"

Girl 1: (a little testy) "of course we're with the band....we're seated right up front!"

Girl 2: Just blurts out: "I love you....I LOVE that you know that we're here with the band..."

me: "that's cool, I'm looking forward to hearing their set"

Girl 1 looks at Girl 2 with a stern glance, grabs her by the arm, then drags her off to the outdoors patio.

I think absolutely nothing of it at the time.

However, in retrospect, I am noticing that I am receiving strong/sexual immediate IOI's: girls are introducing themselves and talking about fvcking, they're telling me they love me, and they're telling me that they enjoy "d1ck."

I've got to jump on this, man. I've got to assume attraction.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hansol

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Dude why are you continually posting about the same crap? You have a million threads on the same screw-up... One thread doesn't cut it or what?
 
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