"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl saying hi
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKjmo062hYs
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It could be good, but you don't want any awkwardness between you guys. Just say hi back and "make your moves" if she's interested.
If you don't see her often, go ahead and approach, you have nothing to lose. Even if the approach doesn't go well, you're never gonna have to see her again so don't worry about it!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
Either way, get some help.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
Confidence is the key to everything man!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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B-Lemond
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"Does that mean she likes me?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
BWUAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
You know what the only way you'll find out is... IF YOU TALK TO HER!!!
If you've got her number, why don't you call her and see if she wants to hang out? That'll tell you a lot in itself...
"If a girl smiles at you she wants to ****. At that point between her smile and ****ing her, all you can do is **** up, otherwise, you're gonna get laid. Just don't mess up. Simple"
There's way more to it than that of course, but I still think its a great frame to have.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
CraigMack said:Wow. I have never seen a question like this before. Why don't you say Hi back and start taking to the girl?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKjmo062hYs
hey craigmack, do you have any more links to videos of speakers like that? I got alot from that speaker.
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Dude you have posted 188 times and you still have to ask this question. She sounds like a very friendly person. The next time she passes you by and says hi, stop, say hi back and start a conversation with her. Who knows it may go so well that you will set up a date..... It's possible.
Now you say you have her number. She did voluntarily give it to you, didn't she? You didn't over hear it or see it somewhere else and take it down, did you???
So, I decided I'd just ask for her number. Next time I see her, I will start up a conversation. Then ask for a date. I will make the moves, kino. See how she reacts if good, I will hold her hand put my arm around her. If good, kiss. Then ass grab. Then sex. That is if she reacts positively. What do you think?