"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl saying hi

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If a girl says hi, to you a lot. Does that means she wanna fvck? I got one chicks number, and I was thinking of calling her. She says hi a lot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well I am asking this

Because I want to make the moves on her. She and me possibly might have sex? So do you think she will fvck me?
 
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Man it all depends on the situation. If you know that you're going to see this girl often, it's in your best interest to make sure that she's interested before you head off and approach.

It could be good, but you don't want any awkwardness between you guys. Just say hi back and "make your moves" if she's interested.

If you don't see her often, go ahead and approach, you have nothing to lose. Even if the approach doesn't go well, you're never gonna have to see her again so don't worry about it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Either you're REALLY young, you're gay, or you're a nympho-maniac and are going to roofie girls in the future.

Either way, get some help.
 
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As much as

I actually have her number I think that approaching should be wise.
 
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Why not?

Do you really want me to fulfill you sexual desires? I think you are trying to seduce me.
 
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Knowing that you have her number, it's pointless to worry about stuff like this. Call her and set up some sort of date. If she gives you bull****, you know she's not interested, if she agrees to go out with you, chill with her and take care of business.

Confidence is the key to everything man!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She said HI to me"

"Does that mean she likes me?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

BWUAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
 
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Maybe she likes you, maybe she doesn't...

You know what the only way you'll find out is... IF YOU TALK TO HER!!!

If you've got her number, why don't you call her and see if she wants to hang out? That'll tell you a lot in itself...
 
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My Uncle (A supreme natural) once said

"If a girl smiles at you she wants to ****. At that point between her smile and ****ing her, all you can do is **** up, otherwise, you're gonna get laid. Just don't mess up. Simple"

There's way more to it than that of course, but I still think its a great frame to have.
 
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First, some poster already said to setup a date because you have her number. Second, you should ask yourself: What does my gut says?. Trust your gut and go for it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Did I miss the lol???
 
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I am almost in tears here! ROFLMFAO!!!!!

Dude you have posted 188 times and you still have to ask this question. She sounds like a very friendly person. The next time she passes you by and says hi, stop, say hi back and start a conversation with her. Who knows it may go so well that you will set up a date..... It's possible.

Now you say you have her number. She did voluntarily give it to you, didn't she? You didn't over hear it or see it somewhere else and take it down, did you???
 
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I just see her more than once.

So, I decided I'd just ask for her number. Next time I see her, I will start up a conversation. Then ask for a date. I will make the moves, kino. See how she reacts if good, I will hold her hand put my arm around her. If good, kiss. Then ass grab. Then sex. That is if she reacts positively. What do you think?
 
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