"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl said something to me that got me kinda confused...

SynTheUnscathed

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Yo, its Maxwell again.

Tonight I went to a really nice italian restuarant near Atlanta, actually near Perimeter Mall, called Marciannos.

I was there is group of people, old and young from my religous congregation.

There was about 2 other guys my age, a friend that is a girl, like my sister, and some other older folk.

Anyways, she was telling me that she likes one of the other guys there which was a huge shock because, well I would have never had expected it. But, this guy has alot of girls liking him. Mind you, all the girls are HB6s and below, but still I always wondered why so many girls like him.

Anyways, I was talking to her about this, and she said that almost all her girl friends think I am gorgeous but a couple things turn them off. One, they get the feeling that I am obsessed with my physical appearance, and the other, is that my attitude is that of Will Smith's in Hitch.

I was a little confused by that.

Is it just because the girls we hang out with are not that attractive and are intimidated by me? Or is it something else?

Am I missing something?

Just thought I would get some outside viewpoints on this wierd deduction.

-Maxwell
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyways, I was talking to her about this, and she said that almost all her girl friends think I am gorgeous but a couple things turn them off. One, they get the feeling that I am obsessed with my physical appearance, and the other, is that my attitude is that of Will Smith's in Hitch.
To me this is her ******** way of saying that you are quite vain and that you think you are too much of a player...does this make sense to you?.

Just chill on the worrying about what you look like and change your attitude a little...
 

christz

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who cares?

is this a trick question or something that's like popping in here and saying..

"I had sex with this amazeing chick last night but she said she didn't like how i took off her clothes"

does that mean, like she thinks im bad in bed? or what?
 

SynTheUnscathed

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I see, I see.

Well, she also said once she got to know me, she thought I was a really nice guy.

But, yeah, I guess I should be nicer to the HB6s. But, I guess my mentality is, I dont want them thinking they are viable options for me.

Wow...I guess that is vain...

Or is is that the DJ way of thinking.

I thought a DJ was supposed to think and act like he is a 10.

Now I am really confused...


-Maxwell

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
I see, I see.

Well, she also said once she got to know me, she thought I was a really nice guy.

But, yeah, I guess I should be nicer to the HB6s. But, I guess my mentality is, I dont want them thinking they are viable options for me.

Wow...I guess that is vain...

Or is is that the DJ way of thinking.

I thought a DJ was supposed to think and act like he is a 10.

Now I am really confused...


-Maxwell

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The DJ teaching is to be fully confident with yourself.

There is a fine line between confidence and acting like a ****y, arrogant, as$hole.

Don't get those mixed up.
 

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If they aren't that attractive, they could be intimidated by your good looks. Whether you are ****y or not sometimes isn't the issue. They just might assume that you are because of how you look. That's their problem.

Don't be a jerk, but don't cater to people's insecurities either.
 

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when a girl tells you something she doesn't like about you (vanity, idiocy, etc) she is also guilty of being those things she accuses you of, ignore her.
 

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i think shes whacked and she watches to many movies. Will Smith pftt please

Tell her to Suck your D***
 
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