"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl said something to me that got me kinda confused...

SynTheUnscathed

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Yo, its Maxwell again.

Tonight I went to a really nice italian restuarant near Atlanta, actually near Perimeter Mall, called Marciannos.

I was there is group of people, old and young from my religous congregation.

There was about 2 other guys my age, a friend that is a girl, like my sister, and some other older folk.

Anyways, she was telling me that she likes one of the other guys there which was a huge shock because, well I would have never had expected it. But, this guy has alot of girls liking him. Mind you, all the girls are HB6s and below, but still I always wondered why so many girls like him.

Anyways, I was talking to her about this, and she said that almost all her girl friends think I am gorgeous but a couple things turn them off. One, they get the feeling that I am obsessed with my physical appearance, and the other, is that my attitude is that of Will Smith's in Hitch.

I was a little confused by that.

Is it just because the girls we hang out with are not that attractive and are intimidated by me? Or is it something else?

Am I missing something?

Just thought I would get some outside viewpoints on this wierd deduction.

-Maxwell
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jaun_Don

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Anyways, I was talking to her about this, and she said that almost all her girl friends think I am gorgeous but a couple things turn them off. One, they get the feeling that I am obsessed with my physical appearance, and the other, is that my attitude is that of Will Smith's in Hitch.
To me this is her ******** way of saying that you are quite vain and that you think you are too much of a player...does this make sense to you?.

Just chill on the worrying about what you look like and change your attitude a little...
 

christz

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who cares?

is this a trick question or something that's like popping in here and saying..

"I had sex with this amazeing chick last night but she said she didn't like how i took off her clothes"

does that mean, like she thinks im bad in bed? or what?
 

SynTheUnscathed

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I see, I see.

Well, she also said once she got to know me, she thought I was a really nice guy.

But, yeah, I guess I should be nicer to the HB6s. But, I guess my mentality is, I dont want them thinking they are viable options for me.

Wow...I guess that is vain...

Or is is that the DJ way of thinking.

I thought a DJ was supposed to think and act like he is a 10.

Now I am really confused...


-Maxwell

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by SynTheUnscathed
I see, I see.

Well, she also said once she got to know me, she thought I was a really nice guy.

But, yeah, I guess I should be nicer to the HB6s. But, I guess my mentality is, I dont want them thinking they are viable options for me.

Wow...I guess that is vain...

Or is is that the DJ way of thinking.

I thought a DJ was supposed to think and act like he is a 10.

Now I am really confused...


-Maxwell

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The DJ teaching is to be fully confident with yourself.

There is a fine line between confidence and acting like a ****y, arrogant, as$hole.

Don't get those mixed up.
 

darth yoda

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If they aren't that attractive, they could be intimidated by your good looks. Whether you are ****y or not sometimes isn't the issue. They just might assume that you are because of how you look. That's their problem.

Don't be a jerk, but don't cater to people's insecurities either.
 

themanwithnoname

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when a girl tells you something she doesn't like about you (vanity, idiocy, etc) she is also guilty of being those things she accuses you of, ignore her.
 

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i think shes whacked and she watches to many movies. Will Smith pftt please

Tell her to Suck your D***
 
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