Girl said she doesn't want kids

[Last Man Standing]

Drop her like a buttered bowling ball!!!!

A woman who doesn't want kids tells you that something is wrong with her mentally or physically, or both!! Dig deeper - and you'll find out!!

 

[Adrian]

Well thats not necessarily a bad thing. I realized that most girls who say this would never make good mothers anyway. I feel lucky for not having a woman like that as my mother.

 

[Adrian]

I've been dating this girl for a little while now and ever since she met me she told me right off the bat that she doesnt want her own kids. She said she wants to adopt.

I can understand why I guess with all the orphans in the world and the world being over populated and all but I have always wanted to have my own kids.
So we were on the phone last night and something brought this subject up.
She was wondering why we are even together and trying to build a relationship if we both know that we can't get married and have kids because she wants to adopt and I don't.

So what should we do? I mean should we continue what we have now? I mean by no means am I anywhere ready for a kid neither is she. We both have several years of school left. I just wonder if there is any need of continuing a relationship.

Sorry I didn't read your entire post before commenting but this is the kind of woman you wouldn't want to have a kid or two to begin with. She already told you straight up that she doesn't want YOUR kid and she obviosly has a problem with bearing a child on her own. She doesn't want to lose her looks and several other stupid reasons. Stop trying to marry her and have kids with her dude. Are you fvcking her? If you are you can still keep that part of the "relationship", but don't get your emotions deeply involved with that. If she does have her own children by any chance they won't be from you. It would be from some alpha male somewhere and for whatever stupid reason she may have in mind. Maybe you should forget about her and realize all the other opportunites you have with better looking women that you can spread your seed to. But I wouldn't recommend any children until much later. You're still too young man. Peace.

 

[penkitten]

my aunt has three daughters, the younger two were very close in age.
both swore they never wanted to have kids because they did not want their kids to grow up in a house that is too small where they fight all the time.
the older one never brought the subject up.

flash forward to today:
oldest one is 30, married, just had her 3rd baby and just went back to working full time as her stupid husband can't find work again this year. (her children are 8, 4 and newborn)
middle one is 22 and has moved out of state , all expenses paid by her work, with no kids. her plan is to one day be financially able to adopt a child or two whenever she marries, which is no time soon.. but her boyfriend wouldn't mind having them now.
youngest one is 21 and just gave birth to her 3rd baby and brought him home to her mother's house where she and her baby daddy live and do not work... because they are not qualified to do anything and have been there since last year. (her children are 2, 1 and newborn) the hospital refused to tie her tubes because her dr's office waited one week too long to have her sign the form and the form must be signed by a certain date before you give birth to qualify.

now, 3 years ago, both of the younger cousins did not want any children. now the younger one has 3. see how easy things change?

my aunt, on the other hand, just keeps working to pay the bills so that none of these grandchildren go without. i can understand it, but at the same time, there is no way in heck my mother would permit me and a husband to lay around and continue to make babies while we make her earn the living for it.

however, my middle cousin that has no children, is a good girl. i can't say she isn't womanly, because she is. whenever she has a need to hold a baby, she babysits her nieces and nephews. i don't feel there is anything wrong with it.