Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm going to go out on a limb and bet that isn't exactly what she said but OP lacks social awareness to recognize the difference.
Black and white is how I play. Get in or get out. I don’t play games
Having emotional intelligence and social awareness isn't playing games. It's being human instead of like a robot.
Then you have to ask, do you like to win more than you like to lose? We've all been frustrated, its part of learning and improving. Don't fight the frustration, get past it and you will make a jump forward. The more tools you have, the easier it is to get girls.
So you’re saying I should have texted her a few times to keep her on the hook but without chasing? How would that look and why would it work?
I don’t even know what you’re getting at. All I know is I went from a 28 year old virgin to getting laid regularly doing it the way you guys constantly say is wrong: so you’ll forgive my lack of belief
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Well, you get to keep the plastic bag. So in the end you won.
