SeymourCake
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girl regrets rejecting Olympic Gold Medalist
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Because he most likely had a slower time than Michael Phelps during Olympic Trials, and still wanted to compete so he decided to represent another country. I know of several people who do the same.
Konada
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He's a Singaporean citizen that's still liable for our conscript military.
The sad truth is that our environment and the government's lack of support for local talents drives these people into the working world or look elsewhere to reach their dreams.
Its pretty sad that this kid had to fight through alot of resistance and obstacles for fufilling his dream and yet the Singaporean government claims credit for allowing him to 'defer' his military obligations
The sad truth is that our environment and the government's lack of support for local talents drives these people into the working world or look elsewhere to reach their dreams.
Its pretty sad that this kid had to fight through alot of resistance and obstacles for fufilling his dream and yet the Singaporean government claims credit for allowing him to 'defer' his military obligations
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
nismo-4
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Her new Tinder match is just a swipe away. And there are plenty.
JohnChops
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that sucks if that is the only thing she accomplished in life.
Now that he's famous she sees him as valuable, because of the social value he can provide her
Not surprisingly her post is just trying to cash in on that
"Look everyone, an Olympian matched with me and talked to me... please like me!"
Whatever
Not surprisingly her post is just trying to cash in on that
"Look everyone, an Olympian matched with me and talked to me... please like me!"
Whatever
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Von
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He's a millionaire too (won 800 000$), he also a child star (8 years old him with Michael phelps)
Now, she "remember him" and want to increase her value by using the "match" and the fact she rejected him
Anyway, the Olympians were given 250000 condoms. I thought he has time to sneak her in the village
Now, she "remember him" and want to increase her value by using the "match" and the fact she rejected him
Anyway, the Olympians were given 250000 condoms. I thought he has time to sneak her in the village
Serenity
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Pretty disgusting how she regret it just because he won a gold medal. What a superficial b!tch, she deserves every bit of that regret.
zekko
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Her greatest accomplishment is that some guy she never met won a gold medal? Talk about taking your value from who can date, yikes. Can you imagine some guy here claiming his greatest accomplishment was something his girlfriend actually achieved? Women get a lot of perks in society, but be thankful you were born male, lads.
grayclif
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All it does is hilight her shallowness. I'd also be pissed at the fact some chick tweeted the fact that I was on Tinder. He's a World Champion and All-American, lives in Austin and has damn near no body fat and he just made Phelps his bytch. What's a guy like that doing on Tinder. He should be able to pickup with little effort.
Sadly this isn't the case. His opener needs work and, well, he's on Tinder.
Sadly this isn't the case. His opener needs work and, well, he's on Tinder.
taiyuu_otoko
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Don't rule out the possibility that it's photoshopped and she's just taking the p!ss
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Von
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A olympian said once ''Having a Girlfriend is the worst thing you can have at the olympics.... it's a sexfest''. They used tinder alot at Sotchi 
The question: Would he have responded if she wasn't an olympian ?
It could be fake but whatever sad case of attracting attention
The question: Would he have responded if she wasn't an olympian ?
It could be fake but whatever sad case of attracting attention
BetterCallSaul
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BetterCallSaul
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Oh now what's this? The media is now riding in like a white knight trying to take this guy down all because the chick regrets passing over him on Tinder?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.