SeymourCake
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girl regrets rejecting Olympic Gold Medalist
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Because he most likely had a slower time than Michael Phelps during Olympic Trials, and still wanted to compete so he decided to represent another country. I know of several people who do the same.
Konada
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He's a Singaporean citizen that's still liable for our conscript military.
The sad truth is that our environment and the government's lack of support for local talents drives these people into the working world or look elsewhere to reach their dreams.
Its pretty sad that this kid had to fight through alot of resistance and obstacles for fufilling his dream and yet the Singaporean government claims credit for allowing him to 'defer' his military obligations
The sad truth is that our environment and the government's lack of support for local talents drives these people into the working world or look elsewhere to reach their dreams.
Its pretty sad that this kid had to fight through alot of resistance and obstacles for fufilling his dream and yet the Singaporean government claims credit for allowing him to 'defer' his military obligations
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nismo-4
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Her new Tinder match is just a swipe away. And there are plenty.
JohnChops
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that sucks if that is the only thing she accomplished in life.
Now that he's famous she sees him as valuable, because of the social value he can provide her
Not surprisingly her post is just trying to cash in on that
"Look everyone, an Olympian matched with me and talked to me... please like me!"
Whatever
Not surprisingly her post is just trying to cash in on that
"Look everyone, an Olympian matched with me and talked to me... please like me!"
Whatever
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Von
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He's a millionaire too (won 800 000$), he also a child star (8 years old him with Michael phelps)
Now, she "remember him" and want to increase her value by using the "match" and the fact she rejected him
Anyway, the Olympians were given 250000 condoms. I thought he has time to sneak her in the village
Now, she "remember him" and want to increase her value by using the "match" and the fact she rejected him
Anyway, the Olympians were given 250000 condoms. I thought he has time to sneak her in the village
Serenity
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Pretty disgusting how she regret it just because he won a gold medal. What a superficial b!tch, she deserves every bit of that regret.
zekko
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Her greatest accomplishment is that some guy she never met won a gold medal? Talk about taking your value from who can date, yikes. Can you imagine some guy here claiming his greatest accomplishment was something his girlfriend actually achieved? Women get a lot of perks in society, but be thankful you were born male, lads.
grayclif
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All it does is hilight her shallowness. I'd also be pissed at the fact some chick tweeted the fact that I was on Tinder. He's a World Champion and All-American, lives in Austin and has damn near no body fat and he just made Phelps his bytch. What's a guy like that doing on Tinder. He should be able to pickup with little effort.
Sadly this isn't the case. His opener needs work and, well, he's on Tinder.
Sadly this isn't the case. His opener needs work and, well, he's on Tinder.
taiyuu_otoko
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Don't rule out the possibility that it's photoshopped and she's just taking the p!ss
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Von
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A olympian said once ''Having a Girlfriend is the worst thing you can have at the olympics.... it's a sexfest''. They used tinder alot at Sotchi 
The question: Would he have responded if she wasn't an olympian ?
It could be fake but whatever sad case of attracting attention
The question: Would he have responded if she wasn't an olympian ?
It could be fake but whatever sad case of attracting attention
BetterCallSaul
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BetterCallSaul
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Oh now what's this? The media is now riding in like a white knight trying to take this guy down all because the chick regrets passing over him on Tinder?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.