"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok here is the thing I met this chick on the net and we talked on the phone and she invited me out because she like me. So I met up with her and a few of her friends and i had a buddy join me. When I got there she paid most of attention to my friend right off the bat. It was like I wasnt there it seemed like. What is up with this picture? She seen all my pix and thought i was cute. So i dont get it. I stand no chance here am i right?
 

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either shes a wh0re or she was trying 2 make u jealous, if u show her that its not working then it may work in ur favour. next time pay attention 2 her friend...
 
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Ok here is the thing I met this chick on the net and we talked on the phone and she invited me out because she like me. So I met up with her and a few of her friends and i had a buddy join me. When I got there she paid most of attention to my friend right off the bat. It was like I wasnt there it seemed like. What is up with this picture? She seen all my pix and thought i was cute. So i dont get it. I stand no chance here am i right?
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What the deal with bringing along an entourage is she wanted to meet you?
 
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thekcguyme said:
Ok here is the thing I met this chick on the net and we talked on the phone and she invited me out because she like me. So I met up with her and a few of her friends and i had a buddy join me. When I got there she paid most of attention to my friend right off the bat. It was like I wasnt there it seemed like. What is up with this picture? She seen all my pix and thought i was cute. So i dont get it. I stand no chance here am i right?
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Is your friend a good looking guy? does he get girls? if so,... then she found him more attractive. it sux but girls are like that.
 
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Naw he really doesnt go out with many women. Its just nutz thought cause i thought she really wanted to meet me. She might have been trying to make me jealous but It was hard to tell I've never been with a chick that did that so I'm kinda new to othat.
 

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My friend didn't get any digits from her. Only I have her number and I got a quick hug and she is suppose to call me. Only brought a friend with me because she was out with a few of her friends.
 
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thekcguyme said:
So I met up with her and a few of her friends and i had a buddy join me. When I got there she paid most of attention to my friend right off the bat. It was like I wasnt there it seemed like. What is up with this picture?
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Simple: You weren't as cool or interesting in person as you were online. Online, there are no awkward pauses in conversation and you can hit off with anybody. In person, the chemistry online wasn't there, so she lost interest in you, but apparently hit off with your friend.

I had an online friend once. We seemed to get along really well and be flirtatious and etc., and he lived in the area so we decided to meet up. When we met in person, it was like we had nothing in common and the conversation was forced. We haven't contacted each other since.

Why did you bring a friend with you in the first place? Why wasn't it just you and her?
 
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Because she was with friends and it was a bit of a drive up north. Conversation with her was good in person and on phone never any silent pauses. We actually have tons in commons.
 
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either shes a wh0re or she was trying 2 make u jealous, if u show her that its not working then it may work in ur favour. next time pay attention 2 her friend...
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that is the dumbest thing I have ever heard.:kick:
 
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thekcguyme said:
Because she was with friends and it was a bit of a drive up north. Conversation with her was good in person and on phone never any silent pauses. We actually have tons in commons.
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If so much is roses and peaches, what are you worried about? Is there more to the story?
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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