"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl re-establishes contact out of nowhere.

Alex DeLarge

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So a while ago I was hanging out with some friends out of town at a party. Met a cute girl there and had a decent conversation with her.

I went for a walk with her and was planning on trying to hook up. Kino'd a bit but I could tell she wasn't really having it. She told me she had a boyfriend, but I just changed the topic and we carried on our conversation. This girl wound up giving me her number.

I sent her a text a few days later just saying hello and she never responded to it, so I figured "what the hell, she has a boyfriend I don't really care" deleted the number and kind of forgot about her.

So now it's about 2 months later and she just sends me a a text
"Hey it's ____, how are you doing?"

Anyone ever have anything good come out of this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you decide to respond, say "Who's this?" (You won't regret it!)



I learned it on the bb.com misc.


It may not seem like much, but as long as you do this without caving in like a beta phaggot, then it will work wonders.
I did that to a few girls before, and either I got a date out of it or they raged and I had a laugh out of it with some buddies.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
So a while ago I was hanging out with some friends out of town at a party. Met a cute girl there and had a decent conversation with her.

I went for a walk with her and was planning on trying to hook up. Kino'd a bit but I could tell she wasn't really having it. She told me she had a boyfriend, but I just changed the topic and we carried on our conversation. This girl wound up giving me her number.

I sent her a text a few days later just saying hello and she never responded to it, so I figured "what the hell, she has a boyfriend I don't really care" deleted the number and kind of forgot about her.

So now it's about 2 months later and she just sends me a a text
"Hey it's ____, how are you doing?"

Anyone ever have anything good come out of this situation?
Maybe she just broke up with her BF and is aiming to pick things up where they left off.

Like the others said, act indifferent and shell see that you have other things going on in your life. Make her work for your attention.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I usually do the "Who's this" line, but she said her name in the text lol. This is really weird, another girl who sort of cut ties with me hit me up today now and she wants me to "hangout at her house". This could possibly be a great up coming week. :cool:
 

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She wants something out of you, probably money, a free meal, attention, clothes, whatever. But play along, leave the lines open. Women Use their pvssy power ALLL the time to get what they're addicted to, and they're all addicts, unless they're nuns or something.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
I usually do the "Who's this" line, but she said her name in the text lol. This is really weird, another girl who sort of cut ties with me hit me up today now and she wants me to "hangout at her house". This could possibly be a great up coming week. :cool:
Good point. Im very skeptical of girls who all of a sudden show interest where there was none before.
 

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gaspipe said:
Good point. Im very skeptical of girls who all of a sudden show interest where there was none before.
Well the first girl I learned just broke up with her BF and is probably just looking for some rebound action. I'm cool with that.

The second girl I'm not too sure.. She seemed like she was falling in love with me when we were together a few months ago, then one day she just out of nowhere started ignoring me and she blew off plans etc.. Then I got drunk one night and sent her a pretty AFC text. Something along the lines of "You can't just call me up whenever you feel like it, I'm not one of those guys" and **** like that.

If either of them want anything more than action, they're barking up the wrong tree lol. I guess I can give them attention.. But a free meal, clothes, money or anything else is out of the question. I'm a broke dude trying to get through college! haha
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've had this happen a few times, she was probably interested but had something going on(boyfriend) Now she has the free time, you will get some pvssy out of the deal, so go for it.
 

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oneboy21 said:
I think we guys need to develop a new game for girls who are looking for a rebound.
The one I play is, get as much poon as possible, knowing it will not be long term by any means.

I had an opportunity early in June to get some "I'm drunk & bored...wanna play?" from a girl I dumped earlier in the year but I was tired that particular night and went to bed early. I got the voicemail the next morning. When I txted hows it going, she got all bitter (from going to such a low place no doubt) and said she drunk dialed and good thing i didn't answer the phone heh heh.

Good for you Alex!

Dig your name (big fan of Clockwork)
 
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