"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl re-establishes contact out of nowhere.

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So a while ago I was hanging out with some friends out of town at a party. Met a cute girl there and had a decent conversation with her.

I went for a walk with her and was planning on trying to hook up. Kino'd a bit but I could tell she wasn't really having it. She told me she had a boyfriend, but I just changed the topic and we carried on our conversation. This girl wound up giving me her number.

I sent her a text a few days later just saying hello and she never responded to it, so I figured "what the hell, she has a boyfriend I don't really care" deleted the number and kind of forgot about her.

So now it's about 2 months later and she just sends me a a text
"Hey it's ____, how are you doing?"

Anyone ever have anything good come out of this situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you decide to respond, say "Who's this?" (You won't regret it!)



I learned it on the bb.com misc.


It may not seem like much, but as long as you do this without caving in like a beta phaggot, then it will work wonders.
I did that to a few girls before, and either I got a date out of it or they raged and I had a laugh out of it with some buddies.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
So a while ago I was hanging out with some friends out of town at a party. Met a cute girl there and had a decent conversation with her.

I went for a walk with her and was planning on trying to hook up. Kino'd a bit but I could tell she wasn't really having it. She told me she had a boyfriend, but I just changed the topic and we carried on our conversation. This girl wound up giving me her number.

I sent her a text a few days later just saying hello and she never responded to it, so I figured "what the hell, she has a boyfriend I don't really care" deleted the number and kind of forgot about her.

So now it's about 2 months later and she just sends me a a text
"Hey it's ____, how are you doing?"

Anyone ever have anything good come out of this situation?
Maybe she just broke up with her BF and is aiming to pick things up where they left off.

Like the others said, act indifferent and shell see that you have other things going on in your life. Make her work for your attention.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I usually do the "Who's this" line, but she said her name in the text lol. This is really weird, another girl who sort of cut ties with me hit me up today now and she wants me to "hangout at her house". This could possibly be a great up coming week. :cool:
 

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She wants something out of you, probably money, a free meal, attention, clothes, whatever. But play along, leave the lines open. Women Use their pvssy power ALLL the time to get what they're addicted to, and they're all addicts, unless they're nuns or something.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
I usually do the "Who's this" line, but she said her name in the text lol. This is really weird, another girl who sort of cut ties with me hit me up today now and she wants me to "hangout at her house". This could possibly be a great up coming week. :cool:
Good point. Im very skeptical of girls who all of a sudden show interest where there was none before.
 

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gaspipe said:
Good point. Im very skeptical of girls who all of a sudden show interest where there was none before.
Well the first girl I learned just broke up with her BF and is probably just looking for some rebound action. I'm cool with that.

The second girl I'm not too sure.. She seemed like she was falling in love with me when we were together a few months ago, then one day she just out of nowhere started ignoring me and she blew off plans etc.. Then I got drunk one night and sent her a pretty AFC text. Something along the lines of "You can't just call me up whenever you feel like it, I'm not one of those guys" and **** like that.

If either of them want anything more than action, they're barking up the wrong tree lol. I guess I can give them attention.. But a free meal, clothes, money or anything else is out of the question. I'm a broke dude trying to get through college! haha
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've had this happen a few times, she was probably interested but had something going on(boyfriend) Now she has the free time, you will get some pvssy out of the deal, so go for it.
 

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oneboy21 said:
I think we guys need to develop a new game for girls who are looking for a rebound.
The one I play is, get as much poon as possible, knowing it will not be long term by any means.

I had an opportunity early in June to get some "I'm drunk & bored...wanna play?" from a girl I dumped earlier in the year but I was tired that particular night and went to bed early. I got the voicemail the next morning. When I txted hows it going, she got all bitter (from going to such a low place no doubt) and said she drunk dialed and good thing i didn't answer the phone heh heh.

Good for you Alex!

Dig your name (big fan of Clockwork)
 
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