Girl Question

[ActorMan]

I am a senior in high school. I am very active in Musical Theatre at my school and I have a question about a girl who is also in the theatre. She has a boyfriend and they have been together for about three years. With that said I will begin with my situation

I have know her for about 7 years, and we have always been pretty close friends. We both have plans about going to college and persuing theatre in N.Y after graduation from college. We just did Little Shop of Horrors at my school and we played the leads opposite of each other. After one of our big songs, there is this long kiss that we had to do. The kiss took place in the second act and during intermission every night she came up to me and wanted to rehearse the kiss. She said that she wanted to rehearse it just for "good luck". We have three classes throughout the day together and during passing time we are always together. Today for instance we were standing with a group of friends and she was paying more attention to me than she was of her boyfriend. Also in choir she always comes to me and leans on me while we are singing.

I am in a show right now so I have to miss my prom, and when I told her that , she was really upset. Everytime someone mentions prom she makes a comment about me missing it, and how sad she is that I am not going. Yesterday in her car we were talking about her relationship and she said she didn't know how she felt about her boyfriend and that she would probably break up with him because she does not like the idea of a long distance relationship.

I have a big crush on her, and I was wondering if you think she has feelings for me. I dont think I am in that "friend zone", and I feel that if she didn't have a current boyfriend, we would be going out. She used to have a crush on me in middle school, and everyone comments on how cute we are when we are together. I am sorry that this is such a long post and I was just wondering what you guys think. Thanks in advance.

 

[Mission]

Tough situation, she is sending you some IOI's, but in all fairness, you have known her for so long, which means that physically she is comfortable with you. Honestly I would say it is better to keep her as a friend, but if you wanted to get her the best way would be to wait until her and her boyfriend break up, and then invite her over and make her a nice meal and watch a movie and try to get something physical happening. Tough read man, feel it out for a short while longer.

--Mission

 

[Damian]

She likes you, period. No girl wants to "rehearse" a kiss for "good luck". It's just an excuse for her not to seem like a slut. In any case, she has a boyfriend right now, so if you are honorable, you can't interfere. The best you can hope for is to create more tension between the two of you. Have fun with her, and keep things a bit risque. Wait until she breaks up with her boyfriend, but don't jump in for a quick rebound. All in all, take your time, but when the moment is right, go for it.

-Damian

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

ofcourse she likes you!

 

[Choking Victim Rocks]

Yea if she wanted to rehearse a kiss then she definatly likes you, but be careful, as some girls (especially ones with boyfriends) love leading guys on like that. Then again you have known her for 7 years, so i seriously doubt that that is the case.

 

[ActorMan]

Thanks alot guys. That makes me feel a little better about the situation. I dont think she is just leading me on because she does not act like this infront of other people. I'll wait it out and tell you guys what happens. If you are interested that is.

 

[ActorMan]

I also forgot to mention that when we first practiced the kiss she told me that it was better than her first kiss with her boyfriend.

 

[Rocko]

haha that a boy, shes sending you some major IOIs my friend. All you have to do in my opinion is keep up your game, don't slip up, and wait for the break up so you can be there to catch her. If you want to speed the process up a bit, you can talk to her about her relationship and why she's still with her BF. Twist her words to make it sound like she doesn't want to be with him (that is of course, only if hes an ass, if not, time will do the trick)

 

[Damian]

GET HER ON A DATE. Take the opportunity while the door is still open!

-Damian

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

I think she definitely likes you, go for it, use you DJ skils.

 

[ActorMan]

Update.

Today we had our final choir concert and before the concert we were talking like normal but after the concert all she did was give me like a soft punch on the shoulder and said Good Job. Prior to that I saw her give another guy a hug, but I think he initialized it. This was weird because she is usually more enthusiastic with me. Am I looking into this one event too much?

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

do more kino, show her whos boss.
Dont try to analyse her actions, even girls dont understand their own minds.