"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl putting her number in your phone when getting the digits.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MisterMcGee

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doesn't mean much. It's so early on.
Call her and see how it goes from there, of course.
 

Tear Gas

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PHAT Rabbit said:
Uhh yeah I'd say that's a show high IL... but don't get too wrapped up into it you still have to be on top of your game. Take it as an IOI but nothing more good luck with the follow up.
thanks. Just thought it was odd cause there's really no point to it. Never had a girl do that, except when they put their number in my phone when i didnt even ask them for it. And im always on top of my game bro :up:
 

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i mean, if some guy you didnt really like wanted your number, would you GRAB his phone and put YOUR digits in. I think it was a subconscious way of her making the whole getting her number process as effortless and easy for me as possible...just my take on it.
 

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PHAT Rabbit said:
I thoroughly agree Tear Gas... but girls get approached all the time and probably by men they have high IL in - I mean only 3 types of guys approach: 1) Confident bastards who are successful 2) Crazy people who want to improve or get a rush from social anxiety 3) Guys who rarely approach and get the courage to make a move (and probably get rejected and revert back to not approaching for months-years). So you're really left with 1+2 which is probably a group of interesting, decent looking males who women will find attractive or at least more so than the average population. That being said, she's probably been attracted to approaching males before -- so don't read too much into it and let the game proceed.
Yeah, you're right, im reading way too much into it. It's just a number.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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